<p>When I was looking at universities, my mantra was “go big or go home.” </p>
<p>I wanted to go to a school that would feel like a mini-city - I could get lost in the crowd or meet a new person every day, if I wanted. There would be 100s of clubs and 1,000s of classes. There would be 100s of on-campus activities to choose from on a weekly basis. If I hated my friends I could meet a whole set of new ones, if I hated the clubs I joined I could pick 10 others.</p>
<p>On and on…</p>
<p>Well, it’s true. Comparing my big school to friends’ small privates, there IS more going on. I’m not saying small schools don’t have it going for them, but their events are significantly more…piddly. And yeah, I’ve compared. Last weekend at UMCP there was a concert with We Are Scientists and Big D and Kids Table (+others), some kind of Muslim competition/consortium going on, a cheerleading tournament, club meetings, lectures, outdoor club outtings, free food at the co-op, movies playing in the Hoff, sports games…the list goes on and on. </p>
<p>HOWEVER, did I find there to be significantly more class offerings in the humanities? Not really. Did I find it easier to make friends…well…also not really. </p>
<p>Looking back, I wish I had applied to smaller schools. The truth is, you only attend a handful of clubs and know a handful of people, anyway. At UMCP, some of the most interesting clubs are so big, it’s intimidating meeting new people in them, and especially intimidating to run for leadershp positions. Also, I can’t stand how my classes are so big - an English class should be small and seminar-styled. Not so UMCP (for many of them, anyway). The advising sucks. You don’t feel like people care about you unless you are a super star and in a bunch of honors or living-learning programs. While the excitement of a big school is great, the “shine” wears off a bit as you go on. </p>
<p>I would agree with DCHurricane that my ideal would be a small school near a big city. That way, you can feel close and connected to your campus, but you can also “escape the bubble.” </p>
<p>I’m not knocking big schools - I think they are definitely exciting, and everyday when I walk across the Mall or Memorial Chapel Lawn the place feels so freakin’ majestic. You feel like the world is at your feet. But, to take a familiar trope and twist it, there is green grass on both sides. It depends on what you’re looking for.</p>
<p>But I would rather be like my friends, who say they are “outgrowing” their small schools, rather than where I am now, feeling like I am just finding my footing 3 yrs in at my big one. I want to be ready to move on, but at a big school you never feel like you have conquered it. But hey…that’s just me.</p>
<p>And, as other posters said, that’s “the world” ;).</p>
<p>There’s also a significant prestige difference between UMich and Xavier…but ah…that’s another thread.</p>