<p>make you feel like you come second</p>
<p>smoking/drugs/cuss/swear and lack of confidence and lack of courage and lack of hard-workingship(is that a word?)
there are a lot of things</p>
<p>all the girls who posted forgot:
"Asians"
on their lists</p>
<p>hahahahahaha, asians</p>
<p>i dont like asians and i'm a guy</p>
<p>actually in all seriousness, idk why asians feel like they're getting shafted. i know many handsome asians that are pimp. if you say you suck cause you're asian, you might as well suck</p>
<p>girls only like the asians who think they're black (~70% of frat boys. std. 10%)</p>
<p>hey, arent asian girls pretty enough too? if you dont want them... ;)</p>
<p>meh a lot of them look GREAT. but they are either too moody/emo or if they're IQ is above 140, they have manly voices...it's kinda true</p>
<p>Asians suck if they think they suck!</p>
<p>I have a male asian friend who has girls all over him all the time, it's ridiculous! He even gets invited to their sleepovers and ends up being the only guy in the middle of like, 5 girls.</p>
<p>No he's not gay, and surprisingly, he's still a virgin by choice! --distraught--</p>
<p>Anyway, to answer the thread:</p>
<p>I hate:</p>
<p>Cocky, spoiled, false-advertising (some people at my HS are infamous for this), insecure (omg, it's so annoying when you're just talking to someone of the opposite sex and your sig other gets jealous), fat, bad hygiene, dumb people, smart people who think they're soooo smart and try to flaunt everything, people who flaunt anything excessively, smokers, druggies, drinkers who think they're so cool since they drink, insecure people who use some curse word for 50% of their entire vocabulary, the list goes on...</p>
<p>bendrumfront, narrowmindedness is resistive to understanding and change. I do not like to have to waste energy into changing a woman just for a relationship that would probably not last long. That is not narrowmindedness, but sensiblity.</p>
<p>"Shyness seems to be a pretty universal turnoff... darn. Guess I'm screwed, then." QFT</p>
<p>skanks, quasi-skanks, most of the bad habits listed elsewhere in the thread (smoking/drugs, etc.), big partiers, anyone who can make my left nut look like a nobel-winning scientist. extreme views (left, right, other) are another one. certain unnamed subcultures are a given.</p>
<p>from a male.</p>
<p>also, i'm not of the affected race, but poor eos is right =(</p>
<p>Dammit the Asians are the best race there is HAHA!! We shall take over the world and make you all emo and moody(?) or something puhahaha - ok getting off subject...</p>
<p>I'm asian, and I don't have a manly voice... hah. I have noticed that either asian girls are drop dead gorgeous, or they are absolutely hideous...there isn't really an inbetween.</p>
<p>Anyway, I'm a girl. Turn offs: Overly confident, short (I'm 5'1/2" and like someone who I feel can protect me, haha), smokers, excessive drinkers, don't have any passion/goals/etc., skinny boys (usually I tend to go for "heavier" guys; buff, whatever you want to call it). On a side note, I can't stand abs, I have to have atleast a little tummy flub to hold onto, lol. Oh yeah, and I like older guys (mid-twenties)... so all my friends say that I like old, fat men...</p>
<p>I'm a girl. Biggest turn-offs: smokers, drinkers, spoiled, lack compassion, act cavalier and think they are better than everyone, do things without thinking them first aka guys who don't use their brains</p>
<p>dragonreborn> Why would you automatically dislike somebody that drinks? That is ridiculous.</p>
<p>I'm a guy. Turnoffs:
Smoking
Dressing slutty (especially girls who aren't thin)
Being slutty (double-standard or not, it's true)
Being stuck-up/not outgoing enough
Being overly perky
Being overly ditzy</p>
<p>And by the way, I think Asian girls are actually pretty hot (with notable exceptions as always)</p>
<p>well, most other guys like it when you dress up slutty</p>
<p>pretty brunettes who are caring (yeah that basically sums it up)</p>
<p>edit: i just noticed this is the turn off thread...but pretend my message is in the turn on section</p>
<p>Cockiness/arrogance (in both men and women) and CRUELTY. I can't stand it, and if you're cruel and then try and ask me out, I'll have no qualms explaining why I won't touch you with a ten-foot pole.</p>
<p>If you are wearing Hollister clothes that is a serious turnoff - and that goes for both girls (for me) and guys (to some of my girl friends)</p>