<p>QUOTE: The cultural difference comes when
five out seven folks who drink at all, binge drink or (if you don't like the term), say they "drink to get drunk", and did so at least once in the past two weeks (many did more).</p>
<p>Now, where did the 5 out of 7 statistic come from and which school is it referring to? In addition to mud-slinging the statistics-slinging is getting dizzying. </p>
<p>QUOTE: Well, if the finest institutions in the country (yes, Williams, and Amherst, and Dartmouth, among others, definitely are among them) raise a generation of leaders who believe binge drinking (and its related attributes) are socially acceptable, what will that mean for future trends in our society?</p>
<p>This statement definitely falls in the Are you still beating your wife category? Just who believes that binge drinking (defined as dangerous anti-social behavior) is socially acceptable?</p>
<p>I agree wholeheartedly that the problem with this discussion is the flawed definition and emotional connotation of the term binge. (Many thanks to Apparent5 and Driver for the references.)</p>
<p>I can imagine if similarly loaded and deceptive and misleading -- epithets were attached to other colleges, we would get a like rise out of those parents too. Of course we are defensive! Youre calling our kids and their friends bingers for heavenssake. You are implying that we parents are not doing enough to protect our children from a dangerous envirnoment.</p>
<p>For so-called concerned alums incessantly to batter and bash their almamater and then attribute it to just trying to keep make the world a better place, is a bit like the fox giving the gingerbread man a lift across the stream. Lacks credibility.</p>
<p>The problem with this recurrent tendency toward Gotcha! moments is that they prevent the authentically concerned parents from raising issues that really are worrisome. For example, my son is going to be a Junior Advisor next year and Im sure that he will encounter all sorts of complex and troublesome issues (including alcohol abuse) that would make interesting conversation on this board. </p>
<p>But the reality is that any admission of vulnerability will be punched and pounded into an unrecognizable pulp of See, see, I was right! Its Animal House over there. Several parents have pmd me with comments like I dont dare bring this up because I know it will get blown out of proportion. I feel like were being forced underground with the bingers!</p>
<p>Paleoalums your kids didnt choose Williams. They are happy. You are happy. We are glad. Our kids did choose Williams (or Princeton or Amherst or Dartmouth or anyone of the more sociable schools). They are happy. We are happy. It is not a contest.</p>