You will get most people on this site that will tell you to go to UW-Madison or UMinn-Twin Cities, as those are much more prestigious than CU Boulder,and the “name” is the only deciding factor. I am not one of those people. I think there is so much more than getting into the “best” school, because who is the judge of the best?
When my D was applying to schools, we discussed safety vs. match vs. reach, and what it would mean if she went into a school in any of those categories. I always thought to myself her reach would be nice (ironically was UW-Madison which she did not get in) but thought she would always be playing “catch-up.” Her answer was the best though - “I want to go to a school that makes me happy.” I was really proud of her to hear that, because at the end of the day, if at all financially possible, they need to be at the school that they will work best at and fit in.
My D just committed to CU Boulder over the weekend. Boulder was her safety school. We were so torn between Boulder and UMass-Amherst (the “better” school which is a bit harder to get into), where she got a nice scholarship, coupled with the fact that UMass was cheaper to begin with. That money part made ME happy. She didn’t see UMass yet for a couple of reasons, but she was getting nervous about being so far away from home. She did see well over 10 other schools, and nothing felt so “right” as Boulder did.
I too, struggled with the fact that Boulder’s “reputation” did not live up to other schools. And it was a struggle. I think your D can make of the school as she wishes by her class choices. Boulder has a top physics program and great engineering. My understanding is that they have great internship opportunities and a great career center, as of course the other schools that you mentioned have. Boulder has RAP’s that cover both environmental and biological sciences. I have heard from countless people that my daughter WILL get a good education there, and there are plenty of people who don’t party or ski. UW-Madison probably has a more notorious party reputation, but at the end of the day they get the job done. I am sure (or at least hopeful) that Boulder will get the job done for my D, as long as she makes the right choices, as she would at any school. Boulder is a big school, and there are plenty of people who are there for academic reasons and not party reasons.
Financially, it was hard to take. My D was in tears. We talked a lot. She just found a job so she can make a contribution, and I think it will actually make her appreciate the school more. She is thrilled with the choice, as am I. Honestly, I still struggle somewhat with the fact that maybe she could have gone to a “better” school, but if she didn’t thrive at that better school because it wasn’t her fit, then we would have wasted a ton of money, plus what should be 4 great years of someone’s life.
Good luck with the decision. I know how it feels.