<p>tomorrow is my best friend's 18th birthday and it is also me and my boyfriend's 10 month "anniversary." he wants me to go hang out with him after school and watch a movie, but then i feel as if i'm ditching my best friend... She hasn't said she wants to do anything but she probably wants her friends to do something for her, however, we are celebrating her birthday on saturday by going shopping and taking her to a concert (she knows), but i guess it's not the same as actually celebrating on your real birthday huh? She doesn't have a boyfriend, so it would be awkward to have only us three hanging out. Ugh I don't know what to do <em>frustrated</em> Any thoughts would be appreciated :]</p>
<p>10 month anniversary? Not really a big deal if you ask me...the year would be worth ditching your friend for...but 10 months vs. 18th bday...I'd do something for the friend.</p>
<p>lol theres an idea archdelux! haha jk...ill probably just hang out with her after school and then hang out with him at night or something. im going to silly string her car and write Happy Birthday on it and tie balloons to the side mirrors :)</p>
<p>My vote is for the best friend. As the first replier said, 10 month is not really a significant milestone (not to belittle the feat, congrats by the way). Although the same thing could be said about turning 18, you only turn into an "adult" once. Besides, you can always celebrate your 1 year anniversary with boyfriend when it comes, which is usually considered to be the significant milestone.</p>
<p>ummm 10 months? are u kidding me? thats not even special...no offense or anything but compared to a best friend's 18th birthday? it shouldnt even be a decision =P. i would go with best friend and if ur boyfriend is logical he will understand =P</p>
<p>i know that the birthday is more important. however, the problem was: my boyfriend had expected me to go out with him and we were going to celebrate my friends birthday on saturday but i wanted to something special on her actual birthDAY. </p>
<p>but, i have talked to him and i will be hanging out with my best friend afterschool (i.e. taking her out to a late lunch, making her go buy lottos and porn lol jk, etc) and then at night, she will probably celebrate with her family and i will go hang out with my boyfriend.</p>
<p>sorry you feel that way tore, but maybe if you see relationships lasting only weeks or a few months tops around you, you would appreciate a 10 month "thing" more.</p>
<p>I'd take the friend, but explain it to your boyfriend... He should understand, since he'd (I know I would most likely) probly chose to be with his friend on their 18th Birthday over the 10 month.</p>
<p>Yeah, I agree that ten months isn't a big deal. A year, maybe, but 10 months doesn't win out over a best friend's birthday. I'd be spending all day with my friend, and calling my boyfriend that night to talk.</p>
<p>fhshortie08-- 10 months is pretty admirable, as high school relationships go, so congrats! Still, your friend's 18th b-day, is a more significant milestone (since she's finally an adult, and you only become an adult once), so I'd definetely choose her, and since she is your BEST friend, I'm guessing you've known her much longer than your bf. If your bf is sensible, then he'll understand.</p>
<p>wrathofgod64...I liked the "sisters before misters" comment. :D</p>
<p>today was great, for my friend: i got a stuffed animal (wolf, her fav. animal) and tied a Happy Birthday balloon to it and some candy and left it with a card on her desk and then i treated her out to a late lunch at a mexican restaurant and we got her a lotto ticket, no pornos lol. then we hung out with some other friends and watched a movie...then i left so she could go with her family to olive garden and i went to my boyfriend's house and we went to go watch "Hitch," which is a hilarious movie :) and had a nice dinner, so overall, everything worked pretty well. </p>