<p>Okay, let's be realistic: Are you overweight and do you have a fondness for a-holes? Answer those before we try to help you.</p>
<p>Jason, I'm not overweight at all and I don't have a fondness for a-holes.</p>
<p>What exactly are you trying to get at? I already stated my actual real life personal problem.</p>
<p>I meant for the thread to be for everyone (well, every girl) to ***** about boys.</p>
<p>So where are all the ladies at?</p>
<p>I'm beginning to think a particular theory is true --
Has anyone ever met a gorgeous woman with the "charming" personality Bedhead says is attractive?</p>
<p>To be honest, I have never met a very pretty girl or a stereotypical hot white girl or a stereotypical hot black girl in real life with an amazing personality. But I have met some cute ones with cute personalities and mediocre/ugly ones with the amazing personalities.</p>
<p>i am a lady!</p>
<p>well, i personally have never met any "stereotypically hot" girls with awesome personalities. i have, however seen very beautiful girls (though not "stereotypically" so) with amazing personalities.</p>
<p>Hahaha-let me guess, you girls aren't "stereotypically hot"</p>
<p>well then don't expect to get guys that are "stereotypically hot"</p>
<p>kidding aside, I'm looking for a quiet pretty girl that isn't so hot that she gets drunk and tons of guys take advantage of her...the problem is finding her-quiet girls can seem uninterested</p>
<p>I'm afraid I'm probably one of those not so pretty girls with a boy. I'm not that confident either, I mean I am about my personality but looks wise not even my boyfriend can convince me I'm pretty. Cute at best I guess. I'd say the secret is to make friends first and then see where it goes. I am mostly only friends with boys and although it may take them a while, as it did with my current boyfriend, he eventually realized it was better to have an average looking girlfriend who like zombie movies and he could joke with than a pretty girl with whom he had nothing in common. He's not exactly the hottest boy in the world either but he could have had some pretty nice looking girls, I know that because they have asked him out and been turned down.</p>
<p>I suppose all boys want sex is a myth but 99% of the male population wants sex.</p>
<p>I know what your problem could be ms jaded....you're probably immature, b*****, and intimidating.</p>
<p>I personally HATE girls that are immature. You're the type of girl that wants a guy to change himself for you. You want him to be sensitive to your needs. Also, the guy that you might be interested in may not be interested in you because you dont' give a damn about what he likes (his hobbies, interests, etc). You just want the attention to yourself but refuse to give him any. So how the hell will he be attracted to you?</p>
<p>Wutang, Do you not read your own thread? I already went over boys and "hotness" with you.</p>
<p>No, I definitely don't think I'm stereotypical. I guess my body is, but not my face. I like it that way. What Morango said because the stereo girls are not very beautiful to me, aesthetically speaking.</p>
<p>Roonil, it is possible that you are very cute or pretty and you just have a low self image.</p>
<p>Plus, when you get close to someone -- an average looking person, you begin to like them more and more. And they seem more beautiful to you.</p>
<p>MightyNick, you're just making a bundle of assumptions because you don't like me. That's the only explanation I can think of. I don't know where I indicated anywhere anything you just said. I can get where you say intimidating and immature but the rest just makes me think you're angry.</p>
<p>I'm the quiet girl who laughs all the time. And I strongly believe that if someone must change for their partner to be happy, then they should leave the relationship. You cannot ever change for someone else. You can only change for yourself. If you're not changing because you genuinely want to, you're going to be miserable and so will your partner. In my personal situation, I am not going to try to make the boy give up weed or cigarettes for me. I'm simply not going to date him. </p>
<p>Well, since I'm explaining philosophies, Wutang, here's what I think! I think you're totally wrong about hot girls attracting hot guys! Girls, especially hot girls, aren't necessarily attracted to men because of their good looks. Yes, yes, yes, it does have a role. And it is a component in attraction, but you've got to remember that we are women and you are men. You're putting your theory on what men like onto women which is wrong because we are different! What attracts women the most, I think, is demonstration of power or high value. And a BOY doesn't NEED to be hot for that!</p>
<p>I got him... :)</p>
<p>I have not read all the posts so i dont know if this was ever suggested, but I thought this thread sounded interesting so i thought i would put in my opinion: stop worrying about other people. If you just live your life the boy/girl will find you. If you really think you found someone you want to be with, why not just ask them out or to hang out something. i mean i know it is so untraditional for a girl to make the first move. I have done it a few times though and i have always gotten the guy. Just be yourself and if someone is interested in you and you easily blow them off because you cant possibly like him because of his looks, style, whatever and you are complaining when it happens to you, you are jsut as bad. You have to give others a chance as well.</p>
<p>ugly girls put out, plus they probly buy the guy stuff which we like</p>
<p>sryyyy im angry</p>
<p>"ugly girls put out"</p>
<p>And only to the desperate guys lol.</p>
<p>Desperate guys is redundant. ;)</p>