<p>Well, I speak of Princeton as someone who has spent a brief period of time (living) on the campus and as a Brown senior. This is certainly a biased post fwiw</p>
<p>The historical fact is that Princeton has been probably the most conservative school in the league. It had the smallest proportion of African-Americans even into the mid-sixties, It went co-ed pretty late in the game and, I think an eating club (Ivy) did not go co-ed until 1990 in large part due to a lawsuit (!). Controversy has been raised about whether Jews were given short shrift under a recent admissions director. </p>
<p>The exclusivity vibe is heightened by the rich, suburban qualities of Princeton N.J. which is not anything resembling a student-centric town. This is a point that sounds trivial now but, totally is not.</p>
<p>The atmosphere is very different than at Brown. I must say I did not see any of the eating clubs. Still, whether it is the architectural layout (Princeton:Gothic, Brown: Eclectic) or, the general presumption that one will join an eating club at P or, the necessity of distribution requirements or, the mandatory Junior Paper and thesis. </p>
<p>The students I met at Princeton in my (short) period there acted much more preppy than the ones at Brown. For example, it is rare that girls at Brown wear lipstick, at Princeton it was pretty common. The dress certainly was more formal and conventional [No funky thrift storeish things in sight]. The discussions I heard tended to be about being in the world whereas at Brown they were about being of the world. That sounds pretentious but, really, it is not. I think that (on average, certainly exceptions exist) Brown students operate on a more idealistic plane than the average Princeton student. </p>
<pre><code>Brown errs on the side of choice in its Baptist tradition. This is not just superficial there is a real edginess to Brown and, I wish I could find it but there is a quote from an admissions dean or the president herself about P seeking more theaterish and artsy people with green and purple hair to dilute the culture there a bit in the recent past.
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<p>There are many valid reasons to proudly pick Princeton. Even still, you should know that this is not one of them. You should visit both of them and decide. But, for me, the culture point plus the town of Princeton was a deal-breaker from further consideration.</p>