<p>annasdad,
(If I am to believe you, even though you are just an anonymous poster on the internet), your D is at fabulous high school: challenging to the hilt, not coddling, effective at teaching to the very very bright kids there. That is what you and she have chosen. Others might believe that such a school is a bad idea, just the wrong thing for their child.
She will be extremely well-prepared for whatever college she ends up attending. She might even be able to kick back a bit, as well as take more advanced courses than her peers.
She is also getting prestige for attending this particular HS, actually, just for getting admitted, and, as you would be quick to point out, for surviving.
Perhaps her grades and thus college admissions results will be a bit “impaired” by this choice (while I am just an anonymous poster on the internet, I also have direct experience with this), heck, she will have had a really amazing academic experience in HS. She is at a Caltech version of HS.
But there are many other types of HS out there!
And so are there many types of colleges.</p>
<p>My own D is at more of an Ivy type of HS- it offers a broad not pointy curriculum, is very very challenging, and the grade distribution is pretty brutal, and it is super-duper rigorous. She is going to be very well-prepared for an Ivy or top 10, but probably will not get in, due to the competitive nature of her school. So it goes. It does not make “sense”, really, but that is the way it works. She will go somewhere else, and do very well. And she has had a very rigorous and informative time in HS, to boot. How very fortunate. How would she have done grade-wise at a typical HS? Would she have learned as much? Would she get into different colleges? Would she handle college differently? Who knows!</p>
<p>What CC is all about is sharing experiences and ideas. We definitely do not all agree!!! But we do ask questions, And wonder about motives and biases. And welcome evidence that we are unaware of. Some people do change their opinions over time here; some do not.</p>
<p>My point is that schools and colleges are all somewhat different, and there are different philosophies galore. Follow your own path, and go for what matters to you. Some of it will make sense, some will not. The system is far from a pure meritocracy. So, just go for best opportunity that appeals to you that you are offered and that you can afford! The options out there are enormous. Prestige vs rigor may not make all that much sense, but so be it. CC is FULL of threads (like this one) about how nonsensical the rankings are, why we still follow all this stuff, even though we know it is hardly a representation of truth.</p>
<p>There are also many threads about STEM education, questioning the techniques and the emphasis, and some lauding, even worshipping it.</p>
<p>And Deresowiesz (sp) has been pretty well parsed on this forum, as well. Many have questioned his motives and experiences and the tone of his pieces in numerous threads on CC. He is a real “character”, and succeeds in getting much attention, that is for sure!</p>
<p>Let us just debate all this amicably and respectfully. I am always interested in another opinion, but will also question it, and expect to be questioned myself.
Peace, and good luck to you and your daughter, who is a mightily gifted student, and has a great future ahead of her, no doubt.</p>