<p>I'm suspended until Fall of next year [2015], can't withdraw or transfer and I have to petition for re-enrollment through student affairs. That's too long for me and I'm passionate about education itself. I made some mistakes and I feel I already learned from them, but the judicial board came at me hard and put me on the shelf and I'm mopey about it. However, I have put in applications excluding my current institution. Can I re-apply with it on the app? I have one more app to go, but this one I will have to pay for. I don't want to make my family pay for something for me to get pulled and expelled due to trying to pull off a scandal. My family think it's simple to exclude my school and pass on by when I say it near impossible. All I did was accidentally sing a gruesome lyric in somebody room and the board thought I was a criminal and it was a total accident. I didn't even think it. I'm really trying to go somewhere else but in-state this time. Being home all the time is driving my insane and I can't take it. How can I go about this situation? I have accolades that are impressive, I arose from a 2.4 GPA to a 3.4, and I'm sending a high school resume, blogs I wrote in free time (to look like I actually do something, and not play games all day), and letter of recommendations. What can I do? I need advice. Help!</p>
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<p>If your current school won’t release a transcript, get an attorney to take them to court. </p>
<p>I agree. They can’t prevent you from withdrawing. They can prevent you from attending THEIR college for the disciplinary time, that’s understandable. But what you completed (one semester I assume?) is your accomplishment. Unless you have an outstanding bill, your transcript is yours.</p>
<p>You have to submit a transcript from any college or university you have attended, unless you withdrew before completing a single semester. You alluded to a significant increase in your GPA, which implies you were there for more than one semester. Unless you owe money, they should release your transcript, but you cannot pretend you never attended the college. If you do, any college that admits you can rescind their acceptance on the grounds that you submitted a fraudulent application (you have to report any colleges you’ve attended). That would only exacerbate your problems. </p>
<p>I was there for less than a semester. And I have mid-term grades if they want that. I have All B’s with on B- and one A with 1 Incomplete. I’d print it out for them if they want. I was practically there for just about 1.5 months. This situation I can’t be picky, and Community isn’t my style of schooling unless it were my last option.</p>
<p>You enrolled. You started the semester. When you apply anywhere else, you will need to produce documentation about your first institution UNLESS you were able to fully withdraw before any academic records were generated.</p>
<p>Were you given the option of accepting being expelled, with a notation about the judicial board’s decision on your transcript? If you go back, and ask them very politely, they may be willing to do that for you. Then you would have your transcript now. And you would have that formally on your record for the rest of your life, because whenever you apply for admission or for a job that asks for all of your transcripts, you will have to submit this one.</p>
<p>Your college/university is doing its best to be gentle with you. They know that you don’t want to be dragging a transcript around with you for the rest of your life that says you were kicked out for your behavior. What you do want to do now, is verify the precise steps that you will need to take in order to apply for re-admission, or to get a clean transcript that merely shows that your withdrew, when your suspension ends…</p>
<p>While you are in suspension, you can enroll anywhere that will admit you in non-degree status. Generally speaking, community colleges will do that. So will many other institutions. You will need to pay for your courses without any financial aid, and it is unlikely that you would be able to live on campus.</p>
<p>Since you are unhappy being at home “all the time” you may want to consider getting a job or making a significant time commitment to a volunteer position. Even if it doesn’t pay much, it will get you out of the house and give you new things to think about. Take advantage of this Gap Year. It’s not what you had planned on, but you can still turn it into something very good.</p>
<p>My midterm grades are good by the one. I have three B’s with one B-, one Passing§, and one Incomplete(I). On my unofficial transcript where I can print from my my.(school name).edu page everything is at zero. </p>
<p>Ask the school - be honest, don’t lie</p>
<p>‘The girl reported me for harassment and sexual misconduct saying I touched her neck, face, and hair when she knows I asked only to touch her hair and she said “Yes.”’</p>
<p>That could complicate things…</p>
<p>Any college you apply to will check the national clearing house to make sure you are not enrolled in other schools or owe them money. Filling out financial aid forms will also let them know if you received direct student loans or pell grants from another school. </p>
<p>Lying will get you into deeper trouble.</p>
<p>Two observations:</p>
<p>I believe that the Common App has a specific question along the lines of: “Have you ever been the subject of a disciplinary proceeding at any educational institution?” I would imagine other applications also ask as similar question. You have to answer it truthfully. The fact you didn’t complete a single semester is relevant to whether they’ll treat you as a freshman or a transfer, but I don’t think it’s really relevant to whether the disciplinary problem has to be disclosed.</p>
<p>Telling the story different ways in different threads isn’t a great indication that you’ve fully owned up to whatever happened.</p>
<p>I own what I did, I was rapping with peole in a dorm and I didn’t think they would hear what I said. I should have figured college dorms had bad acoustics and it got out. I didn’t really mean what I said. They think I’m seriously a threat and I’m not. IF you ask my HS they say I’m harmless. I’m still trying to adapt. I just don’t want to stay home 24/7 until I can go back, if they let me back. </p>
<p>You don’t have to stay home 24/7 unless your parents are so ticked off that they have you in a complete lock-down. Go get a job. It is October, half the retail places in town are likely to be hiring extra help for the pre-Christmas sales season. FexEx and UPS are likely to be hiring as well. Make some money. Read things that interest you. Take up a new sport or hobby. Do some serious volunteer work. The year will fly by once you find things to keep you busy.</p>
<p>Can I deny ever being dismissed or suspended from an institution of higher education for disciplinary reasons? Look, I’m a person who stays trying to be honest, but sexual misconduct which is false because the girl is lying on me when she granted me permission but the board won’t believe me because several people reported men when most are lies that I can NEVER remember. But sexual misconduct looks bad for a person who is seeking to be an education major. I honestly want a clean slate. I want to go back to school! Can I deny this? It said if I’m currently enrolled and did not complete a semester, they’ll go by my high school GPA and credits which is a 3.4 at final.</p>
<p>You can’t deny it. Period.</p>
<p>Your best bet is to keep yourself completely squeaky clean for a year, throw yourself on the mercy of your first place, and get them to clean off the slate.</p>
<p>Reading your other thread, which refers to college administrators as “bastards,” various women as a “biddie,” “slut,” and “cow,” and the details of your various similar offenses (sexual misconduct and harassment) since you were a high school freshman, I’d have to suggest that perhaps you should wait to attend college until you get your emotions and behaviors under control. If I’m understanding your posts correctly, you had a crush on some girl who brushed you off, so you rapped a song about “kidnapping her and throwing her in a dumpster” and your excuse is that you have no responsibility for saying it because you lost control. Can you see how college officials might be concerned that your apparent lack of control might lead you to act on some of those feelings someday? The advice about obtaining a lawyer that you received on the other thread was good. Counseling and the social training your parents mentioned probably would help too. </p>
<p>I can’t possibly know what you’re feeling, but I have to say, that you’re scaring ME. </p>
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<p>Let me explain what I mean, no disrespect intended. </p>
<p>A college student is an adult. Adults need to be responsible for their actions. </p>
<p>Basically, if you did sing those lyrics and are lying and had control and it was just a joke, then it seems reasonable for the suspension to be a punishment for your adult actions. </p>
<p>If you really had no control because of the Aspergers, and I’m sorry that you don’t, then how can you be responsible for your actions. In this case, you are in fact a danger to your community because you have hostile thoughts and your behavior is unpredictable by others. That’s even scarier. In this case, the suspension is preventative because the administration has to remove you for the safety of others. </p>
<p>How could the administration really tell the difference? They can’t. An administration’s first priority needs to be for the safety of the community. An individual’s situation must be secondary. So either way, you can’t fault them for suspending you. </p>
<p>Your situation is sad. I feel bad for you. Your parents need to get you professional help to figure out how you can gain control of your actions so that you can be responsible for them as an adult. Otherwise, I fear that you will likely end up in prison after mistakenly hurting someone, or locked in some institution for uncontrollable threatening speech. Hopefully, with the Affordable Care Act, your parents have access to the proper psychiatric professionals and can help you. </p>
<p>Good luck. </p>