<p>I don’t know the piano or repertoire, but I think that though people can tell you if it is high level enough, they can’t tell you how well you are playing them. If you don’t think your mom can give you a fair assessment, if at all possible (and I realize this is difficult, because your mom might object), try to get to another teacher and pay for an assessment. All the programs you mention are top level programs, to varying degrees, and piano is one of the most competitive instruments of all, and you need to see how realistic it is that you can meet the audition requirements. </p>
<p>The other thing to keep in mind is the joint programs are all different in how they work out. The joint program between Juilliard and Columbia has different levels, there is the exchange program where students who are accepted get their undergrad degree at Columbia, and take lessons at Juilliard (they don’t do theory, orchestra and so forth, I think they may be eligible for chamber). You then can apply to the joint program, and what that means if you finish your UG at Columbia and then go right into an MM at Juilliard (in effect, you audition for grad school early)…so you get a bachelor’s from Columbia and a MM from Juilliard.</p>
<p>Others are dual degree, where you get a BM from NEC and a BA from Tufts. </p>
<p>One thing I can tell you for certain, that getting into those programs makes getting into the music school alone look easy, they take very few students for those programs, a handful at most, so it is more likely than not that you won’t get into them. If you are thinking of this as a hedge to be able to do academic work (to please mom) and get a music degree, you may want to look into doing a dual major at a music school within a university (Oberlin, Bard, Indiana), that may be more achievable versus the joint program. The other thing I have heard about the joint program, specifically the ones like NEC-Tufts, JHU-Peabody, is that they don’t make it easy, that coordinating classes between the two schools and such isn’t easy either…</p>
<p>One note, your mom could potentially be telling you the truth about your playing ability, if she is your teacher it means she probably knows what piano is like out there…but obviously, if you feel she might be doing that to get you to stay away from music as a major, then the alternative is important, to find a way to seek out a high level teacher and get an assessment from them, that won’t have that bias factor. Knowing how rough piano is, I think getting that assessment is important, because if your mom is right, then you could be in effect wasting your time preparing for auditions and applying to those kinds of programs if your playing is not up to their standards. BTW, the same audition standards apply if you are in a joint program or dual majoring or auditioning for the music school alone, you get in because your audition met their criteria, period, doesn’t matter whether you are a 4.0 with a 2400 SAT, that audition determines if you get in, and almost any program you or I mentioned is at a very high level, so knowing if you have the ability or not can save you a lot of wasted time. </p>