<p>Sarahsmom, while this isn't the topic of the thread, :D, I will reply to your comments referring to mine regarding PTown. In NO way whatsoever do I feel that part of the attraction of PTown is the drag queens!! We don't go there for any reason REMOTELY related to drag queens or the gay community. We enjoy Ptown for a few reasons....one is the National Seashore, a total treasure, including Truro next door where we also have stayed many times. We also enjoy walking around PTown's shops/galleries and eating at so many of the fine restaurants. We love the beach and the ocean and it is one thing our state doesn't have. My husband and I both went to college and graduate school in Boston and so visited Head of the Meadow Beach in Truro a lot in our young adults lives and would camp there on vacation. When we had kids, we chose to take them to the beaches/towns that we enjoyed and our kids do love it. That is WHY we go. I was also commenting on the fact that the gay community frequents PTown, and it likely is due ,in part, that there is an open acceptance of their community. They can be open about who they are there and I imagine meet others they wish to meet. </p>
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<p>I do not understand what you are trying to say in that statement. You say you hold hands and hug or even kiss in public. That is ALL that I am saying that the gay couples also do openly in public in PTown. What's the difference? Is it OK for some and not others? I don't quite understand this point. I understand if you don't feel comfortable with PDA, as those are your feelings and your right and opinion.:) But I can't reconcile that statement with the one that it is OK that you and your hubby do so, but not these gay folks who vacation or live in PTown? Perhaps I have misunderstood you. </p>
<p>As far as "running into Drag Queens" in PTown.....there are drag shows if you wish to attend one...entertainers who impersonate well known singers and that type of thing. Zillions of families visit PTown and most likely do not frequent these shows. However, I imagine some adults do. In all my years of going to PTown, I think I have seen two drag shows and once was with our kids. It was all impersonations of people like Barbara Streisand, Diana Ross, Carol Channing, etc. They also have seen Hairspray where Edna is in drag as well. :D I realize that is not for all people. But you can go to PTown and never ever see a drag show like the huge number of other families. </p>
<p>Actually, this summer when my hubby and I were on vacation in PTown, we saw As You Like It and Forever Plaid in PTown. Both were excellent productions (no drag!....likely some actors were gay as is rather typical) and in fact, the Shakespeare production involved mostly BFA students or graduates of the Guthrie program. In Forever Plaid, one of my D's very talented classmates in her year at CAP21 was the musical director, truly great for someone his age, but I digress. Good theater is in PTown and we also took our kids to a show in Wellfleet while staying in PTown the previous summer and have gone to many theaters on the Cape in fact. </p>
<p>When I was commenting on drag queens, I meant mostly the drag shows that are available in town. However, in PTown, often an "actor" from a show, will stand outside the establishment handing out flyers about the show and so yes, my kids would sometimes see such folks as we walked along the main street there like thousands of others. When my child was young, she did refer to them in her own made up word of "Man-girls" and I recall a couple of times we were in town for the Parade. I recognize others' discomfort but I have no discomfort and in fact, think exposure to a spectrum of types of people is a positive thing. That is not WHY we take our kids to PTown, however. My D has a LOT of gay friends in theater and in college, and so I am glad she was exposed to gay people when younger and has been able to have an open mind from a young age, as she doesn't openly run into that lifestyle as much in our local rural community. I would say that not just about gay people, but about any segment of the population that differs from her own upbringing or lifestyle, race, culture, or religion. </p>
<p>By the way, we LOVE Cranes Beach as you do and spent time there every summer during our years in Boston. As far as a week's vacation as a family, we like the National Seashore on the Outer Cape and enjoy the shows, restaurants and scene that is PTown. My kids grew up in a rural area and just walking around PTown is a treat for them. We often stayed in N. Truro with them. The area attracts many families in fact. PTown may not be everyone's cup of tea but I can't imagine choosing to go or not in relation to the gay population there. I CAN imagine some gay folks choosing it because they can meet other gay people and be out in the open about who they are, which is harder to do in many places of the country.</p>
<p>PS...I might add that Shakespeare's As You Like It, which we saw in July in PTown, involves gender reversals. :)</p>