UC Berkeley is a public school funded by the California taxpayers. :(|)
Can your parents afford $55K per year for 4 years? At your parents income level, that doesn’t seem plausible. There is limited to no financial aid for OOS students. EECS is impacted. Being OOS won’t help.
Also, the UC’s require 1 year of visual or performing arts in a graded classroom. I don’t see any art curriculum listed.
http://www.ucop.edu/agguide/a-g-requirements/f-visual-performing-arts/index.html
Stanford will be a big reach since the trend seems to be CS majors and there are lots of them. You don’t appear to have any “hooks”, sorry.