My grandmother used to say “there is good and bad in all people”.
My modern interpretation of that is “idiots can have any color, race, ethnicity, gender, gender presentation, sexuality, disability, religion, or culture” (etc, even SES and test scores and GPA…)
When it comes down to it, the question is at what point is any institution, be it a public school or college, or a religious organization, become responsible for the actions of its members. The problems in the Catholic Church were not because of pedophilia, it was covering up pedophilia by administration that was the issue, and still is in some cases. The same thing with public schools, covering up pedophilia and harassment. My son was harassed by a Latina teacher who won awards for supporting the Hispanic community. She also harassed a Latino boy as well. When my son spoke up, he was fired from his summer job because “she couldn’t have done that to him and the other boy”. On paper, she’s a saint. In real life, she apologized to my son and said “I have ADD, sometimes I say the wrong things…”.
I teach college, and it became apparent to me in the last few years that it is risky to email students, and it is risky to make decisions on my own without sending students to university administrators. I have to send simple emails up the chain to avoid personal liability. Students get frustrated that I cannot give them an answer.
As for the email of issue:
" Latina student saying she would work to serve those who “don’t fit our CMC mold.” vs. think about possible other phrasing, would any of these have been better?
- "don't match our historical student body"
- "have a different background from the average student"
-"of all races and ethnicities"
All of them smack of calling the Latina student “other”. And if people think being called “other” EVEN if on paper your quantitative characteristics show you to be different, then none of those three phrases, or any possible phrase, can meet the needs of the “zero racism” brigade.
I am other. My children are other. My spouse is mostly white, looks white, but grew up in a single parent household. Also grew up poor, free and reduced lunches in public schools. He is other by SES, even if you ignore his multiracial background because he doesn’t appear multiracial.
If we are getting to a point where calling someone “other” is an insult, that’s sad. How can we celebrate diversity if we refuse to admit it exists, unless we are with our “own people”?