<p>I agree with Calliene. Apply to the dream schools, but also be realistic about them: “This school is VERY expensive and we won’t be able to afford it UNLESS they give a lot of money in financial aid/scholarships. So sure, you can go ahead and audition for it, because you never know…but just be aware that financially, it would be a long shot, so don’t have your heart set on it.”</p>
<p>I’ve mentioned this in other threads, but this happened to my non-MT daughter, who got into her then-dream school, RISD (Rhode Island School of Design)–but had to decline because they offered no scholarships. It was just, “Congrats! You can borrow $55K/year!” The key is to be upfront about it and clear from the get go. I’ve told my kids they have two hurdles to overcome-- getting in, and paying for it. If you’re clear from the start, that really helps with the disappointment. It’s still disappointing, but it’s not a shock, and as Calliene wisely says, it’s not the last time they’ll have to face disappointment, nor is it the last time they’ll make a decision based on practical money matters. Onward and upward!</p>
<p>We had situation similar to @connections - non-MT S was accepted to six top-notch, nationally-recognized, wonderful art schools. Several offered “good” scholarships, one (SVA) offered debt only. That S is living at home and attending the one we/he can afford - it is NOT nationally-recognized. Both he, and MT S knew our position/ability/willingness to pay from the very beginning of the application process. Both sons were encouraged to “earn” money however they could - jobs, scholarships, “selling” their talents, etc. MT S was accepted to three fine programs. He currently attends the one that gave full ride.</p>