My D went through grad VP school auditions in 2015 so my info may be dated. But here are a few comments.
Time frame - prescreen results, audition dates - pretty much the same as UG. Decision time is earlier however.
Curtis is late (if it hasn’t changed). Early March. It is also a two night stay in most cases. IMO (which could be wrong), they audition a lot of students for very few spots. The only prescreen my D did not pass was Juilliard. She then passed Curtis. Still, almost all my D’s friends got an audition at Curtis and all were out in the first round. They had to book a room for two nights. Luckily they all stayed together. Still it felt a little “icky” as we heard they accepted one VP grad that year. It is hard to pass on Curtis. And I don’t want to sound negative…but just be aware. She had great auditions everywhere…but that one didn’t feel so good.
My D passed all prescreen (except Juilliard). Note that many of her soprano friends who got all acceptance for UG, did get a few declines from prescreen for grad school. My D (a mezzo) did better. Her guy friends did pretty well too. I really don’t think it was talent as much as “need”. The good thing for grad school is you can wait a year and try later. It’s actually not a bad idea…but my D wanted to go straight through.
In grad school auditions, I felt “need” played more of a role than in UG. In UG, if you were talented, you would get an offer (and probably many). For grad school, I felt (and could be wrong) that the needs of the upcoming operas and program played a larger role in acceptances and money. My D did get a rejection where she knew a teacher. The teacher indicated that her voice type was not in high need.
I did go to one audition with my D in NYC (MSM). Otherwise she did the rest on her own (Curtis with friends). She told me that she did want the support in NYC which surprised me as she had been there before on her own….but it sounded fun. After the audition, she pulled out a list of shops that she wanted to visit to buy her final recital gown (with my money). I felt “had” but enjoyed it anyway.
She did decide to submit a recorded audition for Boston University. I can’t remember why she applied there…but it became low on the totem pole. She did explain to them it wasn’t in her budget to go to Boston. She did get accepted there in that way…but no money…and never negotiated.
And she did drop one school that was a safety after her first acceptance with decent money. The money was more scattered for grad school. She got one very good deal, a few decent deals and one NO money. For UG, her offers were very similar.
So that’s what I can remember. I don’t remember being as stressed as in UG as she and her teacher were doing it. I do however remember being stressed at the end when she was accepted to one high interest school with OK money but still expensive…then she couldn’t get the teacher she wanted…so she dropped that school. Whew…those were a few sleepless nights…
Enjoy. Somehow it all works out…even with a lot of twists and turns…