<p>It sounds to me as if your son should first pick a school he likes academically, with a location and size he likes, and a compatible “vibe,” then look into music studies and extracurriculars there.</p>
<p>Your first list (Yale, Princeton, Harvard, Brown, Penn) would all be good choices. One of my kids went to Brown and loved it; my daughter is a music major at Harvard, but has also been involved with the music department at Tufts. The music department at Harvard is sort of decentralized, with orchestra, choruses, ensembles organized through the office of the Arts, not the music department. The music building is under renovation right now. At Tufts, performance groups are through the music department and there is a beautiful new music building. My daughter loves the music classes at Harvard, but has had plenty of chances to take art history, history, cultural studies, literature, and economics, so far.</p>
<p>I have heard that the Yale School of Music is a mixed blessing, because undergrads rarely get to study with SOM teachers, but we know three musicians studying there as undergrads, happily, and one of them is not a music major. Bard is a great school, and I have heard that non music majors participate a lot in musical opportunities, despite the presence of a conservatory. I know a biology major/composer who thrived there but was not in the conservatory itself. Spirit Manager on this forum knows a lot about Bard.</p>
<p>Another thing to think about is curriculum. Does he prefer gen ed/distribution requirements, or more freedom to choose classes? There are other nuances in requirements for majors. My daughter applied to Harvard versus Yale because the music major there includes more classes, and she liked the actual courses better, and also because Yale had more distribution requirements. Another person might have liked that.</p>
<p>So look at websites carefully.</p>
<p>Other posters have said this but I will echo that it is perfectly possible to take lessons privately while at any school that is near teachers. In Boston, there is NEC, Berklee, Boston Conservatory and Longy (in Cambridge, now part of Bard, so not sure how that would work). My daughter was advised to do this instead of the double degree program, at least at first, because it is more affordable! Opportunities at colleges to play in orchestra and ensembles should be satisfying in every way, at least to start.</p>
<p>Good luck and feel free to PM me.</p>