<p>To continue-</p>
<p>On a personal note, my older D has a friend that is graduating from Vassar this spring. She went there for the English/writing program and she has stuck it out but she does not like it there. She says that the kids from the NE are not accepting and are cliquish. She also says that there are a lot of girls, which she knew going in, but many of of the guys are gay (which is a problem for many girls looking to date. This may or may not be a plus for you.) She says that the most popular majors are the fine arts and English, followed by the other humanities. Poughkeepsie has not been a strong point, and she is disappointed that it is not too practical to get into NYC…that it is not done often. She says that the students are artsy/edgy/very liberal (which she is and likes) but she does not like that most everyone is the same. Very homogenous in outlook.</p>
<p>My best friend and her husband (who coincidentally is a prof at one of the schools that was a top choice of yours, I believe) visited Vassar with their son. They thought it would be a great fit, but he crossed it off of his list for many of the reasons above. To be honest, they thought that the students gave off a weird vibe. They are from New England (and met at Harvard). They preferred the Claremont Colleges. (My friend’s sister is a Scripps grad.) They and other family and friends that we know that have attended/are attending good schools in the NE say that the colleges that were sister schools lost much of their prestige if/when they went coed. I have been told that there is a certain ‘stigma’ or stereotype, if you will, to being a male student at one of those schools. Again, this is only what I have read and been told. As far as overall prestige is concerned , remember that Vassar has been around longer. It is amazing how far CMC has come in such a short time!</p>
<p>What really matters is what you and your parents think. You will probably not see much of your friends if you go to Vassar, and you will be building new relationships anyway. How much of a problem is the longer trip home and how often would you go home? My D tells prospective students that Claremont becomes their second home. With technology it is easy to stay in touch. She often calls as she is walking to another campus for a class or activity or on her way to work.</p>
<p>If you were my son, I would give you all of the info above and hope you would make a happy decision. Obviously, with your circumstances, I believe that CMC would be the better match for you. In the end, go where you would fit the best and be the happiest. That is where you will get the best grades and recommendations and in turn have the best shot at the top grad schools and jobs. Both are fine schools with strong academics. For your combo of majors, weather, resources, internships, job and grad school placement, I don’t think CMC can be beat by Vassar. </p>
<p>Also, there is the question of finances. CMC is one of the top schools in the country and there are so few out of pocket expenses as well. D has gone to retreats for nothing, there are very low cost excursions into LA and the area, zip cars are cheap to rent, snacks are free…and D loves walking to the village or choosing from all of the social events at the 5cs.</p>
<p>Anyway, I hope this helps. You must be very proud of your accomplishments. CMC does not admit by stats only. With a ridiculous 13.8% acceptance rate this year, they must have seen something very special. Congratulations and good luck with your decision!</p>