<p>I read the article about Lola. I wish they would have a follow up. I’d like to know if she got engaged and stopped seeing B.K.</p>
<p>Also for giggles I looked at the website. What man in their right mind would put their picture and where they lived on this site? Can you imagine if your neighbor,wife or
co-worker “found” you out?</p>
<p>With the credentialism it kind of reminds me of the Woody Allen short story “The Whore of Mensa”</p>
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<p>Here is the New Yorker’s summary:</p>
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<p>Many of the comments about the website indicated a LOT of issues and problems, as well as a lot of misrepresenatation. I think a lot of the people post fake photos (using photos of a model or someone else who is younger and more attractive), as well as fake names and addresses. This corresponds to several of the comments. I think many who post are NOT in their “right mind,” which is why they don’t fear discovery. They may also feel it’s fine in their social circle.</p>
<p>The reviews also said that the “background check” was a farce. Don’t really know what to believe, other than this website is something I hope folks I care about would give WIDE berth.</p>
<p>I’ll try to shed a little light by sharing my experiences. I found out about these types of sites by watching dr Phil one afternoon. I was a very attractive 19 year old girl and thought it sounded interesting. I come from a good family and have a better than average upbringing. My parents were even paying for my education snd i had no debt. It simply seemed fun. I posted a profile and pics and received literally hundreds of emails on the site within a few days. </p>
<p>I ended up choosing one gentleman who was 38. Many men lie about their ages but his age was real. We talked on the phone at length and he made me feel confident that he was who he claimed to be. But still, I made him fly to my hometown for our first meeting. He was very attractive and a perfect gentleman. We agreed that, although people use the site for many reasons, we saw it as a way for wealthy men to meet attractive girls they wouldn’t normally meet. And, for girls to meet wealthy men and experience new things. I found it exciting to receive a phone call asking if I wanted to go to Vegas, Miami or Bahamas and packing my things that very day to rush to the airport. It was also fun and new to me to eat at the best restaurants where I food bills, not including wine, were over $500. He is friends with many celebrities and we dined with them frequently. We never waited for a single thing ever. Everybody treated us like royalty. We never talked about money, but he would, at times, send me shopping and pay for whatever I bought. And every once in a while he would insist I accept a couple thousand. He and I are still friends, and chat online, but I ended things with him to find something more serious. </p>
<p>I went back on the site, this time looking for a wealthy man looking for long term commitment. I found that there were many men also seeking this. I ended up with a really great guy who lived out of state. I was still in college. I had classes mon-thurs. I would fly out to him every Thursday or Friday and fly back home on a monday morning flight to be home in time for my Monday afternoon class. We did this every single week for a year. Most weeks we did not even have sex. We simply dined out and talked. We got along great. Then, I graduated and moved in with him. We are now married. However, it is a sexless marriage. He simply is not interested in sex. Therefore, I turned to the site again.</p>
<p>This times I was looking for one man who could fulfill my sexual needs when I could sneak away. Again, I found several men also looking for a descrete relationship. However, I did choose this site type for a reason. I wanted a “traditional” sugar daddy relationship where there would ge a monetary value associated with our visits. We discussed the amount ahead of time and once we agreed on an amount, we never spoke of it again. I know the amount I requested is higher than most, but men were certainly willing to pay it. I think you are actually more desirable when you will only accept a certain amount or more and offer exclusivitivity. Men who have money love to have what others cannot afford. I told the few guys I chose to talk to on the phone that I would accept nothing less than 1k each time we were together. Sometimes it would be only an hr, but other times it could be a few hrs depending on how long I could get away without suspicions. It would be limited to afternoons. Two of the men tried to talk me down to 700-800. The other 2 were ok with the 1k. I picked the one I had a better emotional connection with to start the arrangement with. He gives me 1-1.2k every time. We meet about biweekly.</p>
<p>I feel I was able to get the amount i requested because I’m very down to earth and easy to talk to. I’m educated and I don’t act, dress, or look like a stripper or pro. I have no emotional issues, take no medications, and am not a jealous person. I would never interfer in their personal lives. I explained my situation and that I would be exclusive to whomever I chose. Many of the other girls on the site that are looking for “traditional” will sleep around and be with whomever will have them. But, this is not the best way to do this in my opinion. By limiting the men you’re with, you can request a higher allowance and save your health. </p>
<p>As you can see, these sites can be used for many different things. Overall, I’m glad I found the site and I know I’ve had more great experiences in my life than most people will ever have. I know some of you will judge me and I’m ok with that. I justed wanted to let you guys know my personal experiences using these sites.</p>
<p>Fascinating that you post 10 days after the last post, are a new poster and are willing to jeopardize your “sexless” sugar daddy marriage for $1K to $1.2K twice-weekly meetings with another sugar daddy. Sorry, nothing about your post rings true, according to the many reviews I read about the site, many of which were VERY scary.</p>
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<p>When people write “biweekly” they often mean “fortnightly” or every two weeks, not twice a week.</p>
<p>Omichelle, great post! I would send it to the New York Times.</p>
<p>Heck, why not Jerry Springer or Oprah or Letterman? You could wear a disguise & appear on those shows, if you prefer.</p>
<p>I would politely ask that you do not send my post to any newspaper or television network.</p>
<p>By biweekly, I did mean about once every two weeks. I love my husband, but he is unwilling to provide affection or intimacy. Also, I’m not sure a lot of the girls in successful relationships are posting here. I would bet most girls only search when there’s a problem. I found this site by searching “sugar baby forum” on google. I was trying to find a forum where I could read posts from other girls and share tips and such. I was also curious to see what other girls were getting financially. This was the closest thing I found to what I was looking for. But, my post is absolutely factual.</p>
<p>0michelle, I think your post was a storyline in last season’s 90210. Shenae Grimes played your part.</p>
<p>Dear College Confidential, </p>
<p>I never thought it would happen to me…</p>
<p>Ugh, nothing like dating sites spamming CC!</p>
<p>Can this get locked? It’s a spam magnet. </p>
<p>On phone so no report button.</p>