<p>Going back to the original post and question I think it’s really hard to add much in the way of thoughtful commentary without more knowledge about the applicant and their goals/preferences. </p>
<p>If the primary interest is to serve there are a many paths that can be taken to achieve that objective. As 69 pointed out the overriding concern should be the choice in career path; within the Coast Guard, Merchant Marine or taking a commission from the MMA into one of the other services. </p>
<p>To that I would add the major or area of study that is of interest as the CGA and the MMA have limited offerings. Also you mentioned you son turned down athletic offers (scholarships?) to go military. If he is really talented in a sport(s) does he want to play for a Div I or Div III college? </p>
<p>I can’t speak to the MMA as it wasn’t on my sons list, but he did apply to the CGA. We visited a number of times and he went through the candidate visitation weekend. The humanitarian mission was appealing to him as well as to us as parents. My only concern involved the attrition rate when compared to other SA’s. They typically lose about 1/3 of the entering class and I really never received a satisfactory answer to explain it. It could be due to kids showing up unprepared for a real service academy environment, as the CGA undoubtedly is. When I last looked I believe the other SA’s had graduation rates in the 80%+ range. </p>
<p>You can’t make the decision for them. As a parent I would frame what I considered to be my primary responsibility in terms of one who tried to shine a light on the doors that are out there for them to consider. They have to decide to take the initiative to find out what is on the other side and if they decide, to walk through. To a lesser degree I’ve also tried to be a devils advocate in terms of asking questions. </p>
<p>There are many ways to serve and get to a point where you have the opportunity to serve; there are a number of excellent ROTC programs that go well beyond what you would normally think of when someone mentions ROTC. If your son has any interest in Engineering, there are great programs at colleges like Virginia Tech that combine the academic and military through their Corps of Cadets; same is true for Texas A&M. </p>
<p>Good luck.</p>