<p>Going to a “name” college is not the be all to end all in life. There are families that focus on being able to pay for the top costing schools in this country, and they put a lot of money away to pay for this. The thing is, it’s a balancing act as to what kind of quality and standard of living you want yourself and family to have during those years you have to be saving for college. unless it’s clear that money is not going to be an issue. I know, personally, we made some family decisions as to the size, quality, neighborhood, location of our house so that the 15 years we have been living in it, we have enjoyed the amenities it provides, but at a very steep cost. We could have purchased a house for a lot less and had more money for college. We also spent money on private schools that we felt suited our children’s and our way of thinking and learning, and living, that could have gone towards college costs. We also spent money on other things that enriched our lives.</p>
<p>Basically, if you want financial aid that is going to the needy, you have to down scale to that income level where you qualify for that kind of aid, something I certainly do not want to do . Be aware that doesn’t guarantee to you to get that aid. All it does when you reduce your circumstances is lower the maximum amounts your student CAN possibly get. Yes, there will be those who are in niches and circumstances where they beat the system but that can happen in any situation. I have a neighbor across the street who has DD getting a nice piece of cost met by a very good LAC, that my son took off the table for consideration because full freight was over $60K a year. There are grandparents in the picture that pick up the tab for all kinds of costs, including the house. My guess is the house is not even in their name and GP lends out money each year to be made up when they die. Some arrangement, I know is in place so that the family can live very well and yet qualify for all kinds of aid. I have a friend who did that also. Zero EFCs for each of two kids when NCP made over a half million a year so the kids ended up with about 2/3 of their educations paid for by state, federal and school funds. Yes, there are those who beat the system, but they operate under a risk to do so, that things go wrong with what they do, not legally, but in carrying it out.</p>