Since you’re hoping to get cost in the $25,000 range I’m thinking state schools. Delaware? UMD College Park? Without financial aid, merit scholarships for those state schools could potentially bring you closer to that number. And there are many other high stats kids there. Syracuse has a very active and well-respected performing arts program and gives merit to high stats kid (with demonstrated interest.)
Look at the theater school lists. Many of them would be very interested in a non performing theater type Major with stats like your DD. Ithaca is a good choice as is Emerson. Hofstra is great on merit money. Sarah Lawrence too.
Also check out any of the LACs that offer merit, like Ursinus, St Lawrence, Susquehanna, to name a few schools. Some Catholic schools too. Scranton, Fordham, Stonehill, Providence , Lasalle.