<p>I know this is a parents forum, but I thought I’d offer my opinion and tell my story.
I’m a college freshman that went to a pretty competitive public high school in North Carolina (I think its top 5 in the state). I took mostly honors and APs and maintained pretty solid grades (As and Bs, one C in Calculus AB- not a math person). I had a lot of homework for my classes and was involved in ECs, although I didn’t take a particularly active role because I didn’t think I had time. I wanted an academically competitive college and that is why I chose my dream school, Wake Forest (“Work” Forest-GO DEACS! :))</p>
<p>I can’t say that my college is any easier or harder than my high school was, it is just different and, in my humble opinion, better. I think a huge difference is that I’m actually ENJOYING the classes I am taking, which makes the work load a little more manageable because it can actually be interesting and fun. Granted, I am only taking 14 hours of credit this semester (I wanted to test the waters my first semester of my Freshman year), but even next semester when I am planning on taking 16 credits (including Biology with a lab, Economics, French Literature (in French), Biological Anthropology and British Literature), I don’t think I will have an issue. My enjoyment will motivate me to keep going, even when I have a lot to accomplish.</p>
<p>Besides the freedom to choose, I think another thing that makes college seem maybe a little easier is the simple amount of time you have to play around with. I have so many more free hours to do what I like, including homework or socializing with friends or whatever. I have classes 5 days a week, I work 3 days a week, I write for the newspaper, I attend club meetings, I am pretty heavily involved in Student Union, I watch movies on movie nights, I go to football games, I go to parties with my friends and I still have time to sleep 8 hours a night. The fact that I’m not wasting my time sitting in classes for 7 hours a day while falling asleep and not being allowed to work on things for other classes is a huge help. I also think I was taught (from my school and my parents- they never forced me to do anything and so I became very self-motivated) to manage my time well. This is, again, a huge help. Spacing out what I have to do lets me wrap my head around everything and plan accordingly. </p>
<p>I admit that this does not happen for everyone. My roommate, for example, is far less organized than I am. She was heavily involved in theatre and music since she was small, and therefore everything else has always come after. She is behind in multiple classes and yet, she comes home or goes to the theatre building to talk to friends/hang out or play around on Facebook instead of doing actual work. She will suffer because of it and it will bite her in the butt later on. She did not take as rigorous a course schedule in high school, we’ve talked about this, but her high school was comparable in competitiveness to my own. The reason she struggles is simply because her parents pushed one thing all the time (theatre) and were okay with everything else suffering because of it; they’ve changed their tune a little now that they are paying for her to mess around. </p>
<p>In short, I think it depends on the high school, the college, the person, the parenting and the life skills a person has to determine whether their college classes will seem “easier” or whether their experience will be, in my own wording, “better” than high school.</p>