College Personal Essay Advice and Reading

I am currently writing my college essay. Well I kind of already wrote it but there is a problem. I watched a lot of videos trying to figure out what topic to write it on and I finally did. However, now I am reading a lot of articles and forums saying this topic might not work out very well. The topic I chose is mental health and how it has influenced me to want to become a psychologist…

I don’t have anyone to proofread it as I live in Europe and here everything is different. I would love if someone could help me by reading it or just give me some advice :slight_smile:

Topic may be a bit cliché, but so are a lot of other topics for which applicants have written very successful essays. If you write about a close relative or friend who had mental health issues and how that inspired you to be interested in this field and what you have done in this area, I think it is fine as long as the essay isn’t primarily about someone else’s illness. It is a bit trickier if you are the one who had mental health issues. In that situation, it is a losing essay if it comes off as an excuse for poor performance. There is also a risk that the school may think that you are still a mental health risk. That is a negative.

That’s where I think the problem is, because the essay is about me.
I tried to explain how it was in the past and tried to focus on how that experience has made me into the person I am today and how that is what has sparked my huge interest in psychology. Also my performance in school has never been affected by this, so I think it shouldn’t come off as an excuse.
From my point of view I think it’s good, but I think I need someone else’s point of view…
Also I have no idea what else to write about.

Sometimes, a helpful way to avoid getting too personal (maybe the biggest pitfall of college essays) is to lean into a specific academic theory you find challenging and important. Psychology is loaded with interesting ideas. Zoom in on one. If you need ideas, a Google search for “most interesting ideas in psychology” will get you started. But I think you’re on the right track trying to connect a personal story with your academic interest. @BKSquared gave you good guardrails to keep you on track–follow those.
–MCS

Thanks for the reply.
I was actually thinking of writing about time. Like weather it’s just an illusion, only in our mind as it has never been seen or something along those lines, but there’s nothing personal about that.

If I zoom in on just one idea as you said should I still include my story? I watched a video of an admissions officer reviewing an essay and he said it was not personal enough because the student focused too much on the academic things…

It’s not meant to explain your career interests, nor expound on some academic or intellectual interest. What other ideas do you have?

Well those were kind of the only good ideas I had - the one about mental health, which I ended up writing about and the one about time.

Nothing interesting has really happened in my life so I don’t know what else to write about to make it interesting.

I had a couple other ideas which were either something about animals or moving to Europe. But when I tried writing about that my mind just blocked and I ended up staring at a blank sheet of paper for an hour. Also the topics didn’t seem quite right.

Try to remember this is part of a college app, for review by strangers, not ordinary high school writing on a topic. Not the sort of hs writing where a teacher will be happy to see a new level of revelation.

A nice narrative can do it. You want to understand the traits your targets look for and show those. This is why any “challenge” prompt works well: the story of a hurdle has its own timeline, you can describe the steps to a turnaround, and in the process, make your points.

The Personal Statement is not a tryout for your possible major. Not meant to be overtly intellectual. Nor confessional. It doesn’t even matter so much if it’s a unique topic.

So do you think I should completely change my essay? I think it has a challenge in it, which you said was nice…

Your reply was helpful, only I don’t know what traits colleges are looking for. Like I said where I live I have no one to get advice from, no one to read my essay and point me in the right direction.

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“The Personal Statement is not a tryout for your possible major. Not meant to be overtly intellectual.”

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“It’s not meant to explain your career interests, nor expound on some academic or intellectual interest.”[/quote]

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“ You want to understand the traits your targets look for and show those.”[/quote]

I’ve got to address these because I keep seeing you dispense versions of this bad advice. This first two statements are wrong. The third is misleading and begs the question @INFINITY asks: well, what are those traits?

Public Service Announcement: Each college does not have a unique set of Mystery Traits, specific just to that school, that students need to discover and try to pitch. It should go without saying that there are some differences between MIT, West Point, and Wellesley. But even for those schools, and every other, they are all still looking for the same core set of traits. Why?

Because they are all Colleges with Professors looking for Students. Think about applying to college as a job: What job position are you applying for? Student. Who will you work for? Professors. And who’s hiring you? An admission reader. So if you were hiring someone to be a student who works with professors, what do you think you’re looking for in an essay?

All the things students do with professors. They’re looking for kids who love reading, writing, and thinking about specific academic ideas. They’re looking for all the skills that go with being an excellent student: Being smart, thoughtful, creative, passionate about the life of the mind, academic subjects. They want you to tell them what you want to study. They want to know why you want to study that–what are you going to do with their education when you graduate. In other words, colleges want you to highlight your Intellectual-Traits! Your Student-Traits!

That’s the logic. It’s also confirmed by my training and experience admitting students to Stanford. And here’s another admission officer confirming it: Harvard’s Director of Admissions for 30 years testifying under oath about what made an admitted student’s essays compelling:

“It reminds us that he is a person who loves books and loves reading and loves ideas. We get that throughout the application and from other people. This second essay gives us something of a new twist on this. He created essentially a book club. He calls it the Ulysses Club because they started off by reading James Joyce. What I remember surprised us in the discussion of this case was his enthusiasm for talking about this book with other students.” (Day 6 Trial Tr:13-23 at 168.)

Exactly. Colleges may have specific needs, or slightly different flavors, but you better believe they all want kids who love Books, Reading, Discussing Ideas! That is, the intellectual traits of a . . . Student!

So now you see why @lookingforward’s first two claims are wrong as well: Your essays Absolutely Should explain your career interest, expound on academic and intellectual interests, and be an intellectual tour-de-force, highlighting fields you want to major in. And again, this isn’t just a Stanford thing. Here’s an Emory Admission officer addressing the specific importance of writing about what you want to major in:

"But while the student listed neuroscience as a major, ‘there is no example of neuro in the file’ in terms of activities or in the essays, the admissions officer said. She suggested that they move the application to the wait list, which would be a ‘softer landing’ than an outright denial.” The Wall Street Journal. The Secrets of Elite College Admissions, Jeffrey Selingo, Aug. 28, 2020.

Your college application must tell the reader hiring you to be a student . . . what you want to study and why. It must highlight your intellectual, student-traits. You can write about almost anything–you just need to intellectualize it.

@INFINITY Now, to your essay. You can’t just write about a mental health problem and the story of overcoming this hurdle. Why would that make me want to admit you as student? That highlights personal traits which are secondary to intellectual traits. Instead, you tell your mental health story and then analyze it through the lens of a psychological concept you want to study. Now, you’re highlighting your intellectual qualities: you’re showing off how smart and interested you are in psychology by Doing It on paper. Are there other ways to do it? Of course. I’m just offering one way to try it out.

Don’t get hung up on this advice you heard about writing something “personal.” I know that word throws kids. It’s confusing and misleading. It makes kids think they should write about Who They Are as opposed to the Ideas They Care About and Want To Study. But . . . the ideas you care about ARE who YOU are! The Crucial part of who you are for applying to college. Talking about those ideas IS a way of talking about yourself, of saying something “personal”—and that’s the YOU colleges primarily want to hear about. The BEST-STUDENT-VERSION-OF-YOU.

@INFINITY You’ve got a fine topic. The key to writing is rewriting. Get to work.

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What colleges are you targeting?

We admit to the college as a community. What sort of member of the community will you be? The common working expression is: “in and out of classes.” To show this, it helps to have an understanding beyond the basic majors and your own goals.

Sure, the traits are common, among them, high energy, goal oriented, self aware, able to handle challenges, open to new experiences. But you don’t stop there. Each top college has a flavor, a self identity, made of particulars. In theory, this is what attracted you to X and Y, right? This is beyond any obvious mission statement. or tossing around the phrase, “intellectual curiosity.” The more you look into a particular college, the more you can glean what else they value and look for, beyond having been a successful high school student. Asking for someone else to offer formula is it’s own problem.

But back to OP. I’d be willing to read what you have. But tell us what colleges.

Yes, MCS, I also say it’s like a job quest. But after due diligence, one shows how they match that particular entity’s goals and flavor. Not a generic exercise.

@lookingforward “We admit to the college as a community.” If you’re going to insinuate you have admission experience tell us your role and what school you worked for.

I’ve never heard anyone in admissions backhand “intellectual curiosity” as you just did and in the same breath suggest “high energy” was a compelling trait for admission to an Academic Institution.

–MCS

This argument between us is getting ridiculous. For the record, we’ve taken it to PM and others should be blessedly spared.

I am not backhanding intellectual curiosity.