college recruiting bad story

<p>Just though I'd share a how not to approach the recruiting process. I've heard much of this story living in CT but a lot's probably still speculation -- if someone knows better please say.</p>

<p>Last summer, Jacki Gemelos (from Stockton, CA) became the youngest ever recruit to verbal to Uconn women's basketball. She said Uconn had been her dream for as a long as she could remember. She hadn't even visited the campus. The Uconn community was pretty thrilled -- Jacki is very very good and her in combination with the other recruits of '06 would make a pretty amazing team. Recruit spots were full, and Geno Auriemma stopped focusing on recruiting guards for a year. Recently, Jacki decided that she was having second thoughts and wanted to be closer to home. She retracted her verbal and almost immediately verballed to USC. A lot of people were disappointed and upset, especially when rumors started circulating that a high school coach had encouraged this decision -- a coach that may soon be accepting a position at USC. Recently, rumors again have begun that Jacki's having second thoughts about her USC commitment.</p>

<p>I don't mean to post this to criticize Jacki Gemelos (and wouldn't be using names if it wasn't very public knowledge) but to demonstrate how important it is for athletes or anyone making early commitments that they very carefully weight decisions. Making a commitment at 15 as to where you'll spend the next four years is a very tough decision and it doesn't hurt to wait a little while. Regardless of what you think you know about the program, visiting and researching other programs before committing is probably wise.</p>

<p>Sounds like she wasn't given very good guidance by her coach and family. It's not all that fair for schools to try to "pin down" 15-year-olds to begin with. Sounds pretty sad all the way around. At our HS, the coach encouarges the kids & families of athletes to keep an open mind & not commit unless and until they're SURE that's the ONE school for them & it has worked well for the HS & athletes. The students are also encouarged to think about which school will meet their academic and athletic needs.</p>

<p>Well, Taylor King made a verbal commitment to UCLA as an 8TH GRADER (before he even played a single game of high school basketball!) but he finally retracted his verbal commitment last spring, much to the disappointment of UCLA fans. It stirred some excitement as a bunch of other college programs are now swooping in trying to recruit him. </p>

<p>Although I would like for him to come to UCLA (for obvious reasons, I'm a student/basketball fan there), I do think committing to a college out of middle school is a little bit too early. I think at first, he was relieved that he committed early so he wouldn't have to go through all the recruiting mess, but now he feels like he's missing out and wants to go through it all...</p>