<p>A few comments:</p>
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<li><p>The schools your son is interested in in 9th grade will probably have nothing to do with where he wants to go when he is a high school senior, or where he can get in.  When I was in 9th grade, I didn’t know what the Ivy League was, and knew only of local schools plus the big-time sports schools. </p></li>
<li><p>He will have to be incredibly good athletically to attract the attention of the Ivies of the South that you mentioned.  People are shocked at how good Division 3 athletics are compared to high school, save a handful of schools (many of whom recruit heavily or fill their teams with post-graduate students who are trying to develop athletically or academically before going to the big time).  I know I’ll get people mad here, but in general, high school sports are pretty bad overall.  Most recruited college athletes, superstars in high school, are shocked at how good their new teammates are.</p></li>
<li><p>Division 1 coaches contact countless thousands of prospects, and end up dumping most.  Hopefully, that won’t happen to your son, but don’t count on contacts when he is 9th grade guaranteeing him an athletic scholarship or athletic ticket past admissions.</p></li>
<li><p>Your son may or may not develop to be athletically good enough for a big-time program, or even a Division 3 program.  I grew significantly between 10th and 12th grade, and developed athletically accordingly.  Our high school baseball coach was the best player on a team that won the Little League World Series, when he was 5-6, 140.  He grew one inch after age 12, gained little weight, and ruined his arm.  Your son could get hurt or lose interest.  Betting on college athletics for a college education ticket is not something I would bet on.  Also, bear in mind how difficult it will be to juggle the time demands of playing college baseball, with all those midweek road games, with his schoolwork.</p></li>
<li><p>The Ivies of the South won’t give your son a free ticket through admissions if he doesn’t meet certain academic standards, even if he looks like a future major leaguer.  </p></li>
<li><p>Regarding getting into any college because he is going to a certain high school, the world stopped working that way 50 or 75 years ago.  Brown rejects 80% of the valedictorians who apply.  I interview kids who apply for Princeton, all who seem fantastic, and few get in.  25,000 or so kids applied to Princeton last year, and 13,000 of those had SAT scores of 2100 or higher.  They accept about 8% of those who apply, and routinely reject kids with perfect grades and perfect SAT scores.  The applicant pool is incredibly talented in the Ivies, as well as the Ivies of the South.</p></li>
<li><p>I went to an average public high school and got into an Ivy, as did numerous others at Princeton (and they still take plenty from public schools).  The admissions office at an elite school is familiar with a lot of high schools, and if not, they can figure out how demanding your son’s school is.  They will look hard at what the school offers, and whether your son has taken the most demanding curriculum available.  If he transfers to a public high school that offers only 4 AP courses, that won’t hurt him as long as he has taken those 4 courses and taken advantage of everything the school offers.  They will also expect someone who has gone to a top private school to have performed better on standardized tests than if the student has gone to a school that provides lesser opportunities (and also less SAT coaching). </p></li>
<li><p>As an aside, admissions officers have gotten excited when they meet my child because she goes to a podunk public school in a podunk state from which they get few applicants.  If we had sent her away to prep school, she would be just another prep school applicant, and wouldn’t stand out.  I helped a local kid with his applications a few years ago, and one top 25 school gave him what was nearly a full ride because he was bright, plus he had grown up on a dirt road to poor, uneducated parents.  The head of admissions at that school told me that they considered him a diversity applicant.  The top schools look for diversity in admissions in numerous ways.  </p></li>
<li><p>The connections he makes in prep school aren’t worth paying the prep school tuition.  These may help him later in life, but may not.  If he’s in 9th grade, those kids who appear to be future great connections are most likely the children of wealthy people, and many of these kids will not be in positions of power at all 25 years from now (my region is full of trust fund babies who work little, if at all).  Pay the prep school tuition for the education, not for the future connections.</p></li>
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<p>I’m not sure I’ve helped, but you have a long ways to go, and so does your son.  He’s in 9th grade.  He’ll grow physically, intellectually and emotionally in the next few years.  Let him enjoy high school, and in the meantime, do some research about colleges, college admissions as well as the athletic pathway into college.  There are books about all of these subjects, and you have plenty of time.</p>