<p>First post, yay!</p>
<p>So I'm a high school junior in Mississippi with fairly good grades (3.75 unweighted GPA, perhaps a point above that when weighted), a fairly good ACT (32), and a fairly good PSAT (223). At this point I've begun to get a small deluge of emails and postcards from various universities: a couple of state flagships that my parents had me send ACT results to, and a number of single-word-name, fancy-looking "liberal arts" colleges that I had never heard of and no one here (including school counselors) talks about. These are the kind of schools which the folks here at CC seem to know a lot about on the other hand.</p>
<p>I see on CC that higher-up colleges, being pickier, try to get students to show an interest in them, and that visiting is a big part of that. I also read that visiting schools is an important part of deciding what college "fits", what with different cultures and climates and all. Therefore, as cool as it was to see that American had invited me to their Preview Day next month, it brought me to the realization that I can't exactly visit or network with people related to universities outside my bubble of Mississippi, Louisiana and southern Alabama. Compound this with the conflict between my mother who wants me in local community college, and I who would like more of a full school experience, and it seems like my chances of breaking out of the South and going to a good school are below average.</p>
<p>I can't live in the Northeast, Texas, California or even the Midwest, as 99% of all the people on here, who all are aiming for good schools, seem to. I ask, how much of a disadvantage do I have trying to get into higher-up schools, and how can I compensate for it?</p>
A lot of students do spend 2 years at CCs, then transfer (since you CAN’T finish a four year degree at a CC, she can’t really argue with that plan). And it is hard to make it at a four year school without financial help from your parents. At a minimum they need to provide information to fill out financial aid forms. If your mom is willing, have her help you put data into some of the net price calculators on college websites (on the financial aid pages) to see what you might be expected to pay for some of the colleges you are looking at. Maybe start with those state colleges they had you apply to anyway, then branch out to a few more you are interested in.</p>