<p>MTFan...I am proud of you and SO happy for you...what a way to get the season rolling and SO soon. It will feel great that you have one possible program to rely on. Did you have to audition already for it? </p>
<p>Marissal, I really like those pants and they look perfect to me...they are polished professional looking, yet not overly dressy and not even typical black! </p>
<p>The talk about reaches/matches/safeties in regard to BFA programs is boggling to me. Normally I would advise anyone to have a balance of schools in each of those categories. However, I find that standard advice to be hard to apply to MT BFA programs. It seems to me that most of the programs, or at least the 8 that my D will apply to, have acceptance rates in the single digits, anywhere from 5-10% and those make the odds REACHES for just about anyone. In fact, this whole scenario makes my nerves stand on end a bit, not because I don't believe in my child, but because those odds are daunting. The conventional wisdom to have safety schools does not seem to apply to these programs. I only have to hope that since there are 8 programs on the list that hopefully one will work out at least. Also, I would be curious as to which programs some of you are terming "Ivy"....just to get a sense of what others' opinions are who are using such a term in relation to MT programs. </p>
<p>Fosselover wrote:
"soozievt--" My D is not normally happy not being in a show. She is ALWAYS working on a show."
I guess this is part of what I don't understand. If you child is ALWAYS working on a show and is happy doing so, why would you elect to stop. Why is it so important for a student to forgo that happiness?"</p>
<p>I don't quite see it that way, nor do I think she would be unhappy. Of course she wants to do shows and I believe she will do some sort of show each year of college no matter where she goes, if not the first semester, then second semester and if not a mainstage type production, then a student run show or a showcase or cabaret, or some such. But I am confident she would be happy because first of all, she would be reaching her goal to be immersed in an intensive MT training program where she would be involved in theater every day. While she does a lot of it now, this would be even more as it would be a majority of her class time too ,not like high school. She would be among peers like herself, a lot of talent. She has been in summer programs where it is theater stuff all day and night and she is in her element there and lives for it all year (not that she has a dull life the rest of the year, mind you). So, a college BFA program will be a chance to be immersed in theater constantly. Even if first semester had no official show to do, there would be performance type things going on either in class, some showcase, a dance recital, something. That is the nature of the studies. As well, she would even enjoy student run shows. She has created /directed/choreographed/music directed a musical revue style cabaret (last year) and has written another musical show for this year that she will be directing as soon as her current production (adult production) ends. She even loves that sort of thing. She loves ANY sort of theater activities. Now, if we were talking taking away ALL theater, THEN she would be unhappy. But I am sure she would be doing theater in some capacity, show or not, in a BFA program. If she did NO shows all four years, then yes, that would be a problem. Plus I am sure she will do shows in summers. If there is ONE semester with no big show, she would not really be upset, I do not think. She even loved the one musical theater performance class we observed at UM....just doing that sort of thing day in and day out would make her happy so I don't think it is like taking something away from her. It is not like taking theater away, just one season of a major production. Most kids I know in MT programs are working on some sort of show all the time, even if not some mainstage event. Even a class performance is a show. </p>
<p>When I say my daughter is not happy if not in a show....it is more to do with current circumstances of being in high school, not college. If she were not working on a show NOW, it would mean that her life was mostly school, then all her performing arts training in terms of outside classes/lessons. But those lessons are more like dance, voice, acting, ......so it is not like she would be doing "theater" as our high school does not have theater classes per se. So, when a show is not in her life now, it means kinda "no theater" going on, despite her still doing performing arts training. Whereas in a college MT program, even if NOT in a show, you are still immersed in theater activities/classes, unlike at home when there are just lessons/classes in specific areas like voice or dance, but not theater itself. In a BFA program, you are doing theater all the time with lots of kids like yourself. </p>
<p>As I mentioned to you in a previous post, I support that you are trying to find the best match for your child's preferences, which is what this is all about. I was only responding to your concern, if you will, that she find a program due to her extensive training to date...and mentioned that she would find many kids like that in these BFA programs. But I hear you now saying that your D is almost looking to the BFA programs mostly to start garnering performance experiences because to date she has mostly done training, and less performances. So, you are coming from that perspective whereas I have a kid who all along has done both lotsa training AND numerous performances, so is not looking to the BFA program primarily as a way to finally get to do more performing but actually to do more training, PLUS performing. I have always felt that in this field BOTH were important. The training hones your skills and the performances allow one to apply those skills in context. So, I certainly would want a college program that allowed for a balance between training and performing, like she has now. But also remember this is a SCHOOL so a lot of it is training, with performances opportunities mixed in for first hand experiences. I think this issue has not arisen for my D in regard to MT programs so much because her goal is just to finally get to go onto the next step in terms of her growth in her craft. She feels she has maximized on opportunities that one should have prior to college and is just chomping at the bit to rise up to the next level of her training, which of course, includes more performances but the point being she is looking for a college program that will challenge her in this next step of her journey and go from there. I am pretty sure that whoever designs these BFA program has an inkling of what these kids need at this step in their careers. Most kids my D knows who go to MT programs are doing shows of some sort and I imagine she will too. She certainly will get a wealth of classes now too that she can't wait to embark on. Afterall, we are sending them to get an education. If sending them is centered on finding performance opportunities, you could skip college and go right into auditioning for theaters. So, she is going for the whole kit and kaboodle, which hopefully will entail intense training and performing and the benefits of peers like herself to challenge her and to befriend. I know she can't wait to begin. I just hope she has somewhere to begin at. I am surely with ya on finding the best fit though. </p>
<p>Susan</p>