First off, I want to say that I KNOW these programs (combined undergrad/med school programs) are great, and that if I can get into one, it would definitely be worth considering. However, my parents believe that they are the best thing in the world. They think that, if I get into one, I should instantly just forget about going anywhere else and join that program. While I love the idea of getting into one of these programs and joining it, I believe that, even if i did make it in, my other options would still be viable options. Basically, here is the list of arguments that my parents and i have used about this-
Reason why i SHOULD join these programs if I get in
- I know that I want to go to med school for sure
- Since the ultimate goal of my undergrad is to get into med school, I shouldn’t even consider turning this down.
- Med school acceptance rates are super low, and even lower for asians (which I am)
- (For the specific programs we were discussing) the med schools are close to us (my parents) so we can help you once you are in it
Reasons why i SHOULD NOT join these programs if i get in
- I am choosing my undergrad and med school (7/8 years of my life) when I am only 18.
- (Again, for the specific programs) The required GPA and MCAT score to stay in the program are high enough that, even if i was not in the program, I would probably be able to make it into med school anyway (assuming ECs and experience and all is good too)
- If I did not make the GPA or MCAT score to stay in the program, and I did not make it into med school, then a degree for the lower tier university (where these specific programs are at) would be much less valuable than a degree from the colleges i would go to if i did not get into the program
- While I am aware that it is extremely hard to make it into med school, I definitely have the motivation and determination to keep up good grades and scores while in undergrad (my parents are not really worried about this not happening either-- i am very self-motivated)
- I would not be as happy at the colleges with these programs as I would be at the colleges without it
- The colleges that I am considering without the programs- UNC, UMD, and PITT- are all really good colleges for pre med students and a large percentage of the pre med kids at the schools make it into med school.
I am probably leaving off a few things from both sides of the argument but those are the things that I remember. Also note that, if i didn’t go to the special program, I would still only go to the schools that offer me AT LEAST full tuition, so it wouldn’t be too expensive anyway.
I would like to reiterate that I would seriously consider these programs if i got in. However, I still want to be able to have a choice between other colleges and these programs if i did make it, and right now my parents would not be very supportive of that.
Feel free to disagree with anything I noted and to add anything to EITHER side of the argument. More that proving my parents wrong, I want to make sure that I know what I am talking about and that I am properly informed.
Most of all, do you think that my parents or I are undervaluing or overvaluing these programs?
Sorry for the long post, but it is important that I can make an informed decision on this kind of thing and I want to try and get as much advice as possible. Thanks to everyone in advance.