COVID-19 hitting too close to home?

We hiked a lot - as did he through college and after getting married. One mile wouldn’t even classify as a hike for us. It’d be way too short. We’d just call that a stretch break similar to walking around Devil’s Tower on our way to Yellowstone.

We’re scuba divers.

We’re active people and travelers.

I really hope those thing aren’t over for him now.

I’ll admit it angers me when people are anti-mask, etc, when we know they work (non-bandanas, etc). I wouldn’t care at all if they were just risking their own lives. Live and let live. But by not using them correctly they’re risking everyone else’s life (not solely meaning death - there’s more to living than death).

When my guy caught it not much was known. He drew the short straw trying to help out with online church service. (Pastor had been visiting “healthy” patients at the hospital previously.) Now we know so much more and can make a difference. I’m bewildered that so many just don’t care. (sigh)

ps When he caught it I remember being “mom” worried that he might be “that kid” who was unlucky and would die making the news. I constantly reminded myself of the odds and was glad when he wasn’t. I’m still very glad he wasn’t. But it never occurred to me this might happen. I expected it to be a “catch it and get over it” disease.

Now we’re at 6 months and counting. I don’t know when or if to still hope for normal health to return.

Some folks have called me Covid Obsessed trying to keep up on the news and studies. Well yeah. When something affects your kid, those things can happen. It’s part of being a mom - at least in my world.

According to this aamc (Association of American Medical Colleges) link @“Snowball City” posted above, it happens to 1 in 5 young, healthy mildly affected people. I don’t know if it lasts as long in 1 in 5, but it’s not simply “catch it and get over it” for a good number of people.

https://www.aamc.org/news-insights/post-covid-19-clinics-help-survivors-recover

Well, my nephew and an older guy I know and his wife all got covid. They all have mild cases and the guy and his wife seem fully recovered (the guy lost 8 pounds and said he was happy about it).

He believes he’s fully recovered and doesn’t believe healthy people who get covid are any worse off than a regular flu. His prompt and full recovery adds fuel for his belief.

My nephew and his dorm who all have covid so far also are fortunate they have mild cases but unknown whether they will have prolonged after-effects.

My BIL’s buddy who had covid months ago could operate as a surgeon for a considerable time after recovery. His handwriting also changed significantly and he tires very easily and quickly. He had been very healthy previously and was in his early 60s.

I’m waiting for flu numbers for the upcoming season. I’m betting it’s lighter because of people wearing masks. I hope.

A close relative, a college sophomore, has just tested positive. He probably caught it from a kid he was with last week. The first test he took was negative. He started feeling bad the next day and tested positive the second time. He’s been put in a separate dorm for ten days. He’s taking all of his classes online and meals are being brought to him.

In my family’s email chain, a second cousin responded, “I hope his situation is light as my son’s was.” What?!? These are the people who tried to get my dad to go to some hokey holistic doctor and keep posting COVID nonsense on Facebook. They also go to the church my parents are attending in person. I guess the kid got it at college, but it still hits too close to home. Dad still doesn’t seem to “get it,” sigh.

My Dad knows he probably wouldn’t fare well with COVID, so he’s being very careful. So careful that I worry about him not socializing at all these days. He is a VERY social person, but right now he just doesn’t want to take any chances, even with 100% mask compliance at his retirement community.

My FIL found out yesterday that he tested positive for Covid-19. Several staff members & a couple residents tested positive, so it’s probably not a false-positive. He does not have any symptoms, but I have read enough to know it can still happen. The facility is good about masks and distancing, but my FIL can’t exactly get a shower from six feet away … and it doesn’t help that he keeps taking his mask off to talk to people.

My MIL was offered an alternate space in the facility, since she tested negative. But she isn’t going anywhere. She has already made it known that if she gets it, she’s fine with it. Her comment: “We’re just hanging around here waiting to die, so we might as well enjoy ourselves while we’re still here.”

I really hope FIL gets through this okay. I’m pretty sure my MIL will escape unscathed … she is going to live until she’s 110!

Our neighbors’ son is a secret service agent. Says there are a lot more positive cases than have been reported. He knows several.

Our jail (next door to my office) is up to 73 inmates out of 255. 20 +/- refused to be tested. 10/13 staffers tested positive yesterday. There are 90 employees, so I wonder if they only tested the symptomatic ones first. In any case, ugh.

My FIL tested positive but never showed any symptoms. We figure it was a false positive, but maybe he’s just a super human 92 year old who is in a wheelchair with spinal stenosis & Parkinson’s. Doubt that. I’m going with the false positive. Regardless, I am happy he’s okay.

@kelsmom I could believe it’s real. Some folks have genetics (and/or prior immunity) that appear to give them an edge making them asymptomatic - as if the virus isn’t there. It happens across the ages. I remember reading about it a couple of months ago - wish I still had the link to share, but I don’t. Google might be able to find something about it.

I will do some research. It’s certainly possible.

@kelsmom – a person can be asymptomatic at any age – that’s been known since all passengers on the Diamond Princess were tested. It was an older age cohort in general, and as I recall about half of the positive tests were for asymptomatic individuals.

That being said, there have been a lot of false positives seen in some of the quick tests used by nursing homes. Ideally any positive result on a quick test should be followed up with a more accurate PCR – but the ability to do that depends on testing availability: https://www.nytimes.com/2020/10/07/health/nevada-covid-testing-nursing-homes.html

My mother (almost 99 years old) recently tested positive and I was shocked. She has been living with us since March when her independent living facility closed down to visitors. We had her tested because she was planning to move back to the IL apartment now that visitors are being allowed in. They required her to have a negative test before she could move back in.

There’s no way she could have been positive – she’s not in the best of health and has lung issues, so I’m pretty sure that a Covid infection would be severe and would certainly show some kind of symptom. I took her to be retested at the hospital and got a negative result but the IL facility wanted her to have a second negative before she returned. She got that second negative this week.

The false positive was from the PCR test (as were both the negatives).

Dr Fauci, in a webinar I heard yesterday, says asymptomatic cases are 40-45% of all cases. Asymptomatic folks can still spread the virus and in fact can be superspreaders.

They haven’t released the cause of death, but Whitey Ford died. :frowning:

My nephew, the college sophomore who tested positive recently, is doing well. He’s back in his regular dorm and said he feels fine. Whew!

Work on our major re-model has come to a halt. We had gotten somewhat close to the end. Initial paint has been done, plumbing fixtures are going in, the last of the tile has arrived and is ready to be set, and electricians have been installing ceiling cans, light fixtures, switches and dimmers, with ceiling fans arriving soon.

We received word that our talented tile team has had 3 come down with COVID. Return date unknown. The main guy, a wonderful man and quite talented, is the sickest. He is probably around 40 years old.

Remaining counter tops cannot be set as COVID has invaded the slab fabricator warehouse last week also.

Got the news today that the painter cannot return to stain our front door, paint the last arriving cabinets, and do final touch up as he has been stricken with COVID. Several members of his team have been affected. We have been bringing this hardworking team lunch every Friday as they are dependable, cheerful, talented, and just all around nice guys. The head painter, who is ill, had told me his 40 year old BIL died of COVID-no underlying conditions-so I’m imagining that he is terrified.

DH called another tile guy who had done work on our current home to see if he could come finish the job, and he just emailed saying he is “down with the flu” and unable to work.

What most of these guys have in common: many are Hispanic-usually from Mexico- live in close quarters/multigenerational homes, travel to work together, are often related by blood or marriage, so spend a lot of time together outside of work.

This is the community that has been hit very hard by COVID in the Dallas metroplex, as well as the African American population. I’m imagining that builders around the city are finding their own crews similarly affected. It’s heartbreaking and I’m afraid for them. Though they skew towards the young side, their access to quality healthcare is often lacking.

We had hoped to be finished well before Thanksgiving, but doubtful that happens. We started this project in late February, and we are very tired of dealing with it. But no doubt, our problems completely pale in comparison to what these families are going through. Praying that they all recover fully.

On a very selfish note, I am glad to say that neither DH nor I have been exposed to any of these guys in about 10-14 days, and all of us were always masked, as well as distanced by at least 10 feet at all times. I double mask and keep a bigger distance most of the time. Most of DH’s interactions occur outside, with masks and distance. Due to the scare I had in August, I had tended to come look at progress after everyone has left for the day. Aside from delivering lunch on Fridays, I had been keeping my interactions to a bare minimum.

This does reinforce the notion that you just cannot assume that any person with whom you are interacting is “safe.” You just never know what’s going on in that person’s life outside of your mutual dealings.

@Nrdsb4 thank you so much for your comments on your remodel. It’s amazing how many COVID positive people that you have come in contact with through this remodel. I appreciate learning about how hard hit the Hispanic community has been hit and the trades have been hard hit.

I bet you will be so relieved when this is over.