<p>Iām adding my enthusiastic support to junior year visits. As everyone has said, fall of senior year is just too busy to cram in 5 trips, and they may miss some things at home that theyād rather not: homecoming, time with friends, not to mention studying/writing for that last batch of AP classes. </p>
<p>IMO, the official visits should be made only to schools youāve already visited and that are truly in the ātop 5ā. Donāt waste your kidās time, the coachās time, the time of the college kids who are hosting your kid, etc. </p>
<p>We felt NO pressure on the unofficials. No risk for the kid or the coach, just a chance to get a good look at each other. By the official visits, my daughter had a serious set of criteria in mind on each visit, and Iām sure the coaches and team did as well. I learned an incredible amount on the unofficials- Iām pretty sure I was present at every coach meeting. I tried to be silent and spongelike. In fact, we agreed that I would not speak. If the coach looked at me for an answer, I looked at my daughter.</p>
<p>My daughterās questions got better with each visit: more targeted to what she really wanted to know about a program, and more specific about what the coach was looking for in the recruiting class. She also got a lot better at communicating to the coach what she is like: what she looks for in a coach, in team mates, in a school, how she likes to practice, compete, etc. She let the coach see the ārealā kid instead of the tense recruit she would have been without some interview practice. </p>
<p>The culmination of these visits and talks were the officials. She came home from her final choice completely satisfied that she had found her match. You may never remove all doubt, but you can get closer if you see a lot of programs, and consider no trip wasted, just another learning experience. </p>
<p>Best wishes- this can be soooooo fun and exciting, if you like roller coasters, that is.</p>