Hi all!
So I posted a thread like this about two weeks ago, asking for advice on which school I should attend. But I mainly got responses that focused on my financial aid situation, and not much that related to whether or not the campuses would be good fits for me. So I’m posting this in hopes that someone could give me some advice as to which campus I might be feel more at home on.
So to start out, I am a Black woman who is a part of the LGBT community, and I am not at all a fan of drinking, frats, or any real party scene. I am also going into Computer Science, and I’m pretty nerdy- think D&D, video games, anime, stuff like that. Dartmouth’s Comp Sci program is amazing, and Amherst’s department pales in comparison, which is influencing my decision. Dartmouth’s Comp Sci course catalog was super exciting when I looked at it, and Amherst’s is just wayyy too small for comfort. I also want to have a secure job when I graduate, and I want to go into video game development as a programmer. Dartmouth’s D-Plan system would be great for helping me get an internship, and their alum network would also really help me secure a well-paying job out of school- plus, a lot of their internships are paid, so I’ll even be able to get a head start on my loans. But on the flip side, Amherst has a very liberal and sort of hippie campus whose vibe I really dig. Dartmouth is very white and elite and that scares me a little bit, as I am nervous I’ll get onto campus and feel totally isolated and alone. I also don’t like greek life and don’t want to drink, so I’m worried that’ll put a damper on my life at Dartmouth. Plus, frats aren’t known to be LGBTQ-friendly.
Also, the student body. They definitely don’t seem very “alternative” as far as I can tell. I’ve already made a pretty close-knit group of friends in my Amherst admit group chat, and they’re fantastic. But they’re mostly “alternative” kids", mainly LGBT minority students from lower-income families. Dartmouth, from the outside, doesn’t seem like it houses those same type of people. I don’t think I should rule out Dartmouth just because I’ve bonded with some folks from another school, but I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t worried about making friends on Dartmouth’s campus.
Dartmouth’s rigor also is a little concerning. I’m from a large public high school where I didn’t have to try super hard to get through my classes. This isn’t because I’m a brainiac, it’s because my school is underfunded with massive classes that let me get ahead because they weren’t all that challenging. I’m worried I’ll get to Dartmouth(or Amherst, honestly, though it seems easier in some regards) and get totally melted by the first math class I take, no matter how hard I work. It’s all pretty intimidating.
I hope someone can provide some insight! The deadline is coming up to pick a school, and I’m no closer to settling on one now than I was two weeks ago.