<p>I go to a really nerdy school where it's essentially impossible to get a girlfriend. Someone suggested that I try going to other schools, but it's not quite working.</p>
<p>(1) My school is fairly closed off. People rarely leave the campus and almost never talk to college kids on the outside. So I can't meet people through connections.</p>
<p>(2) I tried to just talk to people at other campuses. Doesn't work. They don't want to talk to me cause I'm a complete stranger, plus I have nothing to start a conversation about.</p>
<p>(3) Getting into a frat party is not easy if you're a guy, although I managed to do it once. But there's the same problem: the people are all in the same social circle and they mainly talk about their friends. So again, I can't really just start a conversation with them.</p>
<p>I think seeking out girls yourself is an important part of dating, and having a computer do it for you just doesn't seem quite right. Anyone here ever met girls from other schools and have any tips?</p>
<p>When your LOOKING for a girlfriend, your less likely to find one. Why do you think you need one?</p>
<p>Maybe you aren't looking at the right place in your school? Try joining a club that typical nerds wouldn't be in (but of course you have to like it!)</p>
<p>Hm, maybe high school girls are worth a shot.</p>
<p>The thing about clubs is that there are too many guys here. Some clubs with a comparatively low male/female ratio actually advertise it. (pathetic, isn't it :P)</p>
<p>clubs as in school clubs or night clubs? lol</p>
<p>if your talking about night clubs, most clubs ususally have a "laides night" or "college night" where girls get in for free. This increases the number of girls.</p>
<p>Be careful about the HS girls so you don't seem like a creep and def make sure they are 18 and mature.</p>
<p>I actually didn't even think about night clubs because he said something about not leaving campus much. Ladies night would be a great time to go b/c of all the single ladies lookin for hot guys! I think it would actually be a better option than HS girls.</p>
<p>Would people consider you hot? Maybe your sending out the wrong vibe and need a lil makeover.</p>
<p>Have you thought about asking your friends if they have any sisters/cousins/friends that they could set you up with? (I know you said there are no connections b/c nobody leaves campus, but surely someone has HS friends and family) Try a blind date.</p>
<p>Stop blaming the environment around you for not handing you girls, as if that's the only thing that is preventing you from getting laid. Work on your social skills and become an interesting enough person that you can talk to complete strangers. Find a bar or club with a lot of girls from other schools and start getting numbers. Build your own circle instead of relying on connections.</p>
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<p>No offense, but you need to learn the difference between "your" and "you're" because you make this mistake in every single one of your posts and it's getting ridiculous.</p>