<p>no dont. worst thing is to lead someone on.
I didn't mean for her to lead him on--I simply mean to just get to know him. Make it clear that it's not a date.</p>
<p>no. guys are stupid. dont do anything.</p>
<p>even if i'm not really that into a guy, i'll probably go out with him at least once, just to give him a chance/not hurt his feelings
i'm too nice about those kinds of things generally..</p>
<p>But leah, that is only of value if you're genuinely giving the guy a chance. If you're just doing it to avoid hurting his feelings, and you've already ruled out anything more serious, you're merely leading him on. And that is far worse than a polite rejection.</p>
<p>maybe you could befriend him. That'll give you ample time to know about his behavior, and other aspects u wanna know. And, if u find him interesting, you can suggest a date.</p>
<p>But, I wouldn't suggest you to take him up for a date, and drop him immediately after.</p>
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<p>That's worse than rejection if you tell a guy you can go out but it's not a date. He wouldn't ask you out unless he was romantically interested so a woman should simply turn him down politely.</p>
<p>By "he's not my type," I definitely meant personality.</p>
<p>Also, when I met him, I felt like the girl standing right next to him is his girlfriend,but it seemed that he wanted to hide his relationship. Every time, I tried to include that girl in the conversation, he kept interrupting. </p>
<p>My friend said that it is okay that a guy tries to date another girl even when he's still in a relationship, because everyone is looking for the "right" one and being in a relationship is not like marriage. However, this just doesn't make sense to me. Even though I am not quite sure if that is his girlfriend, it turned me off at the thought of that.</p>
<p>Generally girls decide whether or not the guy is the dating time by the end of the first date.</p>
<p>Dating is stupid</p>
<p>^then what is smart? </p>
<p>Also, a question for the guys, do you feel like cheating if you ask someone out when you are still in a relationship?</p>
<p>Honestly, asking a girl out while you're still in a relationship with another girl is like cheating to me. The fact that you entertained a thought like that and decided to ask a girl out while still being romantically involved with another is dishonest and disrespectful behavior. </p>
<p>I don't get why people get so confused over this! I would never do that to any girl. I've had friends **** around with all of that bs and ultimately be screwed over by both girls and feel ashamed. Just choose the one person you love/admire most and if things don't work out, end it and move on.</p>
<p>I wouldnt say is cheating unless you do anything more than a hug. Yes its wrong but not cheating, although I would never do anything like this and I would never ever cheat.</p>
<p>So I met this girl who works in a local small grocery shop. She's really cute even without makeup, friendly, and seems really nice. We made small talk like two or three times and she remembered what I bought last week (some kind of arizona tea; and i only bought that from that store once) and I thought that was really cute/she's into/has interest in me. Am I right? Should I ask her out? y/n</p>
<p>^unless it is the only store close to you, I'd say go for it. Just ask her if she's doing anything after work or something like that next time you see her (if she still seems interested). If she says no, or if it turns into a messy break up, it could be awkward going to that store again while she's working, so make sure you have other places to shop by where you live.</p>
<p>I dont have awkward breakups, only awesome. but thanks for the advice, i think im going to go by there tomorrow. today she was like "haha you're here again?" and i wanted to be like yeah to see you babe. but i thought that would be too weird/awesome.</p>
<p>^I've met some crazy girls who make huge fusses over tiny things. You don't know this girl so you don't know what you're getting into. </p>
<p>Also, keep in mind, you'd be going to a grocery shop 3 days in a row. You don't want to come across as a stalker. I'm not saying that you are, but you just want to examine all angles that you could be coming from because you don't know what this chick is thinking.</p>
<p>i'd think it was super cute if a random guy came into my work specifically to see me. that's pretty adorable..go for it</p>
<p>I'd think it'd be super awesome if a random attractive girl walked up to me and offered me NSA-sex. Doesn't mean it'd make me want to date her.</p>
<p>^ haha..... u have a way with words, easy.</p>
<p>lethargytm, just ask her out. U don't know her yet, so for a date and get to know her. One thing is sure, u won't be able to find out what she is like by reading comments of people online. :D</p>
<p>I think that it's kinda creepy that she remembered what you bought (unless of course you talked to her about something memorable). Dates are fun. Go for it.</p>
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<p>Hitting it and quitting it? For guys, from the standpoint of evolutionary psychology, it's the optimal strategy for almost all situations.</p>