Dating?

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the other one (and this is usually only for girls) is that you like the attention/excitement (i.e. that little ego boost that someone's into you) of going on one.

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^^this can be true, and i've witnessed a lot of girls my friends date tell them they don't want a relationship because they've "been hurt in the past" or other BS like that. then they get p.issed off and regret it when the guy moves on, because it was basically just a game for attention and pity.</p>

<p>if she really likes you, she should come around after a few more dates.</p>

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<p>it's a good thing that i have a female sex partner while i await for this girl. i am going to be coy but charming.</p>

<p>**<strong><em>es aint *</em></strong>.</p>

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<p>...but hoes and tricks.
Oh Dr. Dre....</p>

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<p>leah, it's not that your friends came around, it's simply "want what you can't have syndrome". It's not a coincidence that they only decided they liked the dude when he had moved on; they started to like him because he moved on. The fact that now it would be more of a challenge turned them on.</p>

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it's a good thing that i have a female sex partner while i await for this girl

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Is her name right hand or left hand?</p>

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It's not a coincidence that they only decided they liked the dude when he had moved on; they started to like him because he moved on.

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yeah..that's what i was saying.
also:

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Is her name right hand or left hand?

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haha. burnnn</p>

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<p>her name is leah. for real not even joking</p>

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<p>wow! she sounds fabulous. i give my blessing (seeing as i'm sure you were really concerned about that..)</p>

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<p>its only sex leah.</p>

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<p>oh i thought you were talking about the one you actually wanted. nevermind.</p>

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<p>i<em>wanna</em>be_brown, thanks for your new perspective...</p>

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<p>i hope you're not being sarcastic jason. (which I only thought you were because of the extra periods)</p>

<p>sorry leah, upon rereading your post, it's now obvious that that is what you meant. It was early when I read it/posted.</p>

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<p>Well, for me,anything is okay as long as you seem well-planned.</p>

<p>So this guy called and asked me out. He said he would love to have dinner with me, and asked me to choose a place. To me it sounded very unorganized, so I ended up rejecting him. I don't know what other girls would do, but I like guys who seem full of interesting ideas.</p>

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<p>Well, for me,anything is okay as long as you seem well-planned.</p>

<p>So this guy called and asked me out. He said he would love to have dinner with me, and asked me to choose a place. To me it sounded very unorganized, so I ended up rejecting him. I don't know what other girls would do, but I like guys who seem full of interesting ideas.</p>

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<p>^just because he offered to let you choose the place doesn't mean that he's disorganized or anything. Maybe he doesn't know what type of food you like. Going to dinner isn't the most exciting thing to do, but it gives you a chance to get to know each other.</p>

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<p>What excuse did you reject him with?</p>

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<p>I said I had a scheduling conflict.</p>

<p>Well, I felt bad. I should have been more sensitive, and give him a chance. I guess the real reason is that he is not my type. My friend also thinks that I should have given it a try. Would you go on a date with someone you don't really like?</p>

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<p>^Probably not. Do you truly know him well enough to know that he's not your type (as far as personality goes, not just looks)? You'll be surprised about the people that aren't exactly your type. Just give it a chance (not necessarly a date, just hang out) and pay for your own dinner.</p>

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<p>no dont. worst thing is to lead someone on.</p>

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Well, I felt bad. I should have been more sensitive, and give him a chance. I guess the real reason is that he is not my type.

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<p>By "not your type," do you mean "not good-looking enough/confident enough/decisive enough/smart enough/generally good enough?" Or do you mean "not congruent to my residual image of a boyfriend?" If it's the former, I commend that you have standards for yourself. If it's the latter, you might be missing out on some good times. However, judging by his lack of initiative and decisiveness, I'd say you're safe in letting this one go.</p>