<p>hahahah yeah my suitemates and i laughed about that for weeks--"hey baby, let me swipe you in!"</p>
<p>also, i'm definitely a feminist, but if a guy asks me out, he should pay for the date. i'd do the same if i asked a guy out.</p>
<p>i definitely pay for girls. i hate it when the girl refuses. then i politely say that i am old fashioned and i pay. leah, after dinner what then?</p>
<p>Aren't feminists the other way around?</p>
<p>thats why she said but</p>
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so extremely difficult then when having to stare at each other across a dinner table.
Dating 101: sit NEXT to your date, not across from your date.</p>
<p>A movie should be fine, whether at your place or at the movies. Really, it\'s not about the date. It\'s about you spitting your game no matter where you are.
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<p>Hey man- you're not writing code, quit with the carriage returns!</p>
<p>I may be a chauvinist, but I always make the girl pay if she asked me out. If I asked her out (which I wouldn't have to do because they come to me) I might possibly consider paying</p>
<p>i say dinner, walk, dorm to hang out</p>
<p>if you invite the other person you should pay.</p>
<p>On our first date, my current boyfriend took me out to dinner at my favorite restaurant (how he knew it was my favorite is beyond me) and then we met up with 2 other couples at one of their apartments to watch a couple movies and hang out in a relaxed atmosphere. </p>
<p>Other than the amazing surprise he pulled off on New Years Eve, our first date is probably my favorite because it was simple and totally non-stressing. If it makes YOU feel awkward during the date, odds are SHE is also feeling awkward. Neither of us ever felt like anything was "forced" or "weird" during/after the date.</p>
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Hey man- you\'re not writing code, quit with the carriage returns!
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<p>It\'s my style. </p>
<p>In my rule book: each member of the party pays for himself or herself.</p>
<p>lol @ any sap that pays for a chick on a first date. Funny how feminists want "equal" rights, but don't mind keeping the traditions that benefit them. </p>
<p>That bit about who asks who out is irrelevant. 99% of the time it's the guy that does the asking.</p>
<p>True that. </p>
<p>And another dating 101 lesson: if the girl is calling to plan, say you're busy that day and then reschedule.</p>
<p>^why? that's inconvenient and rather manipulative. if i ever found out a guy did that on purpose i'd be ****ed.</p>
<p>haha obsession, you'd probably use the false time constraint too, huh. i love having friends who actually read about the best ways to pick up girls</p>
<p>"I may be a chauvinist, but I always make the girl pay if she asked me out. If I asked her out (which I wouldn't have to do because they come to me) I might possibly consider paying"</p>
<p>Well duh. If guys paid when girls asked them out , girls would be asking out guys constantly for free meals.</p>
<p>Wait are guys still supposed to pay for all dates AND cook in college? That doesn't seem fair. I agree with Russell7. Either you both pay, one pays and the other cooks, or you have an equitable combination of cooking and paying for dinner out.</p>
<p>with my current boyfriend, what i consider our first date actually came from when i called him to hang out when we were on thanksgiving break (we live like a minute away from each other, but never met until college). he told me we were gonna go to his roommate's house to watch a basketball game, and i assumed we'd be drinking and stuff, but when we got there we hung out with his roommate & his parents, which i thought was cute. then we went to my house & he kind of invited himself in. we sat talking and pretending to watch the godfather for three and a half hours while he worked up the nerve to kiss me.
before he left he told me that he thought he'd "have to go to bed again that night wondering what it'd be like to kiss you," and i thought that was pretty adorable.</p>
<p>it wasn't really a formal date or anything & it cost nothing, but we were pretty much together from that day on.</p>
<p>also, i generally try to pay if it's the second date, but guys never let me.</p>
<p>Well you could always cook. Costs about the same price and most guys would appreciate a home cooked meal much better than a dinner out.</p>
<p>yea i wouldnt either. and thats such a cheesy line.</p>
<p>although i once said something to a girl like this: "its a good thing i have a bad memory because whenever i see you i am reminded of how beautiful you are." background story: ever since my amnesia/concussion, i have a hard time typing grammatically correct and remembering some things.</p>
<p>btw i think im just going to invite her to my place and ask her to help me make a picnic basket and take another girl out to the picnic. haha kidding about the last part. but i think that would be nice. make a basket and go picnic in the lawn in my school. and then watch a movie or something at my place.</p>
<p>if this was winter it would be so much easier.
my fav winter dates are ice skating+hot coco/coffee</p>
<p>lethargytm you never use a line like that on a girl. you just gave her the power.</p>
<p>what power? i dont think i would care who had the "power" if i really liked her.</p>