Dating?

<p>oh yea leah, how did your surgery go?</p>

<p>Oh yeah! How's life with no tonsils?</p>

<p>I think easy died.</p>

<p>Oh yeah, I've missed those comments.</p>

<p>looong story that involves lots of arguing and tears, but my surgery was supposed to be tomorrow and my mother cancelled it & rescheduled for christmas break. which i don't think is actually legal seeing as i'm 19 and she really shouldn't be involved in my medical affairs at all..</p>

<p>soo i got really p.issed off because i wanted the surgery NOW so i wouldn't get sick 84850348 times this semester like i did all year last year & i questioned my parents' right to step in like that & they threatened to cut me off and it was all no bueno..</p>

<p>and now i have 10 days with nothing to do because i quit work early because i was getting the tonsillectomy..</p>

<p>That sucks. I'm sorry to hear that. I really hate when my mom threatens to cut me off.</p>

<p>You're going to love the popsicle after the surgery.</p>

<p>Did your mom give you a reason to reschedule your appointment?</p>

<p>And is Easy dead or something?</p>

<p>You have no idea how bad I'd feel joking about him being dead if he actually was.</p>

<p>^^yeah we'd seriously never know..</p>

<p>i've been sick & i was on antibiotics..my mom's a nurse so she was kinda worried about me having surgery in that condition & kept telling me what a "bad feeling" she had about it, which in turn kinda freaked me out because i thought she was insinuating that i'd get some terrible infection because of my weak immune system or something like that. and when i told her this concern she randomly flipped out on me and told me that she'd never talk to me about this kind of thing like an adult ever again and called the surgery center and the ENT to cancel it without my consent..</p>

<p>typical how parents threaten with money....what happened to good old fashioned beating?</p>

<p>It's pretty much illegal.</p>

<p>HAHA the makeup bag one is gone.</p>

<p>Are your parents allowed to cancel your medical affairs if you are over 18? 0_o</p>

<p>^ What do you mean by affairs? Yes, I think parents can cancel your insurance, but I don't see why...as long as you're still considered their 'dependent'.</p>

<p>I think HIPPA prevents the medical people from being able to discuss your info with them, but who knows. My mom still schedules my appointments and talks to them about stuff and there is no problem. But getting the college to talk to her about my financial stuff is a whole different story. Besides, Leah's mom might know the doctor or she may have signed something saying her mother can do that stuff or it may be because her mother is the financially responsible party or maybe she just acted like she was leah.</p>

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i don't like asking boys out..i'll drop hints like "we should hang out some time" or "you want to see that movie too?? will you come see it with me?" & then when he says yes i'll say something like "alright; it's a date!" but i probably wouldn't go for it outright

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<p>That's how you ask somebody out... sorry, I don't see the difference between what you do and what all guys do, lol.</p>

<p>usually guys are more foward than that.</p>

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That's how you ask somebody out... sorry, I don't see the difference between what you do and what all guys do, lol.

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<p>lol!!! Well that's about as forward as I am. In fact, I am usually more subtle... I don't want to be too eager or I might scare them off, but maybe I should be like "alright; it's a date!". Maybe that's what went wrong with the last chick: I wasn't being eager or enthusiastic enough.</p>

<p>Dang, what's with posts being deleted?</p>

<p>I kinda like guys being halfway subtle. I'm not really into the aggressive type.</p>

<p>it's nice though when someone outright says "will you go out to dinner with me on thursday?" because you know they're serious (probably not planning to try to hook up that night because they're not asking you to casually "hang out") & it's nice that they've thought about when to go beforehand</p>

<p>^^that scenario has only happened to me like twice though and one of the times i politely refused haha..generally guys are more subtle, i guess..but i don't really consider them to be asking me out on a date unless they do it like i described up there..</p>