<p>Maybe laughable to you to move but not to our family.</p>
<p>Single mom of 5, living in Northern CA, did some research while oldest was sophomore in high school. Knew I couldn’t afford state tuition even with Pell, SEOG and w/s. So I did some looking around and figured out some CHOICES. </p>
<p>We packed up (think Grapes of Wrath), moved ourselves and drove 3000 miles to somewhere we could afford. And no, it wasn’t Omaha!</p>
<p>My beach bum kiddos became southerners. (reluctantly at first!) But seven years later things have worked out better than we imagined. Kiddos have all graduated high school (something us REAL low-income folks worry about) and #4 will be graduating in 2-3 weeks from college, one more to go!</p>
<p>NC in-state tuition is affordable even with little aid and that was what I was looking for, that and very reasonable grad school in-state tuition for med/vet/business/law school. If they commuted and worked, and won some departmental “scholarships” they would be able to attend. This was my “worst-case scenario” because of the choices I made. We knew then trouble was on the horizon for state schools in CA.</p>
<p>Moving all the way across the country where we did not know a soul was hard. But it was one way to make college affordable for our family.</p>
<p>Another option that we exercised before leaving CA was to have high school student take classes at our local CC at no cost to us. She was able to accumulate 58 transferable units she took with her to our new state college. She was able to graduate in less than 2 years. That also saved a ton. Again it was hard for her to do this but it is what made college affordable to us.</p>
<p>The kids had to leave their friends behind and start over for a better future not just for themselves but their siblings as well. They walked away from state championship teams and coaches. But again they were willing to sacrifice then for a better now.</p>
<p>Son that is graduating in a few weeks says we as a family accomplish more, push harder and realize our goals when we are outside our comfort zones. He is right, as usual!</p>
<p>As far as students receiving Pell Grants there are not many at his school, maybe 6% whereas as at D’s school it was around 82%. And most of the 82% were all taking large, large loans to attend. (She was at on OOS public on an academic scholarship-turned down the D1 scholie as the ac was worth more).</p>
<p>The difference between son’s friends taking loans and daughter’s was that not only are the Pell eligible taking loans but their absence from the family while at college was not allowing them to contribute financially by remaining a wage earner.</p>
<p>So although son had his college expenses paid for (FA package) he still worked all through college to assist us still at home. That is the purpose of SEOGs, to supplement the Pell.</p>
<p>Again what may be laughable or inconceivable to some is just what we did. We made choices so that they would have more options.</p>
<p>Kat</p>