decision time and how much in loans can we afford, no idea what Grandma thinks she can contribute

<p>Want to add something. Say someone had her first child at 24 and her parents did the same. So when kiddo is 18, parents are 42 and grandparents are 66. That’s just so different than Grandma being 86. Also, 42 is a much longer way to the parents own retirement than 52 is. </p>