<p>Ok, so there is def that big question then. </p>
<p>On the one hand, you’ll never know if you can do it (succeed at MIT) unless you try. On the other hand, is it worth putting yourself in that kind of situation if you already question the environment? </p>
<p>Maryland will def give you the more quintessential, best-4-years-of-your-life college experience - from academics to social to sports (I am sooo not a fan of sports, but I loved attending football games as a student because they were so much fun - lots more going on than just football - school spirit is awesome). And I think that Maryland is far more diverse - which I happen to like… </p>
<p>As for safety, I am female and attended many moons ago when the surrounding area was even rougher/less attractive. I had no problems because I knew to be alert at night, but that is true of anywhere. I would have no hesitation about sending my daughter (currently have a son attending). I know the campus seems overwhelming, but once you are living there, it really is not that bad/doesn’t feel so big…classes in your major will be in one area of the campus, and for any gen eds, you can pick the sections not only by teacher, but by location…bigger school means more options!</p>
<p>It’s easy to make a big school smaller (with programs like honors college, QUEST, etc just to name a few) and other groups you can become involved in. However, you can never make a small school bigger. And MIT is really quite small. Amazing resources of course, but still very small. </p>
<p>If it were any of the ivies, I’d say it’s not even a question - go for Maryland (another friend has 4 kids - 3 went to ivies and 1 went to Maryland and she said that Maryland was by far her favorite - while all her kids are ridiculously smart, the Terp had more unique experiences, plus had more and better job offers before even graduating than her ivy kids did!!!) . </p>
<p>However, because it’s MIT and very, very few get accepted …and btw, congrats for getting in!!! …my best advice is to see if you can do an overnight at each school. You might get a better gut feeling of what you think will be the best fit for you. </p>
<p>Remember, there is no wrong answer. It’s what’s right for YOU - I’m sure you will be successful regardless of which school you decide on. </p>