<p>It does make the student selfish to not bother with completing the process.</p>
<p>I don't understand why not do the right thing? Is it that complicated? It took me three minutes to find an email for the entire UC and Cal State system.</p>
<p>The LEAST an accepted applicant can do (after someone put together a nice packet, went over their application, teachers sent in forms, the created all kinds of files, have people tracking students, getting ready for the incoming class, closing out files, cleaning up, etc) the LEAST they can do after the school has invited them to join their instiution is send a polite email declining the invitation of admittance:</p>
<p>Dear XYZ School:</p>
<p>Thank you for you letter of admittance to your school. However, I have decided to go to ABC. </p>
<p>(They gave me more money, their math program was more in line, I wanted to go out of state...your office was mean to me)</p>
<p>Sincerly,</p>
<p>Student"</p>
<p>If you can't find the card, or a link on a website, send the email to the admissions people, saying, please forward to the appropriate party, as i was unable to find a better address to send this to.</p>
<p>This way, they can fix their system if it is difficult to navigate, for the next kids coming down the pike.</p>
<p>And if a school was horrible to deal with, say that...</p>
<p>"Dear Admissions Chair,</p>
<p>I will not be attending yourschool. and thank you for accepting me.</p>
<p>At this juncture, I would like to say that I did have some serious issues with your Admissions office. Emails were not returned, the phone was very difficult to get through on etc. This did(not) affect my decision, and I thought you should know about some of the problems, as I may not have been the only one dealing with you office having issues...</p>
<p>Again, thank you for my acceptance.</p>
<p>Sincerelyt</p>
<p>blha</p>
<p>This is very good practice for job interviews, applying to grad schools, etc.</p>
<p>Starting NOW in learning the ettiquette of business, (and schools are buinesses after all) goes a long way.</p>
<p>My D is applying for volunteer work at various instiutions. One has told her, no not this year, but thanks...she sent back a note saying thank you so much for the consideration, and that she is still interested...</p>
<p>If something happens to the kid that beat her for getting the post, my D will have a very good reputation and will be seen for following through, even with a rejection</p>
<p>You never know down the line who will be important in your life, and learning now to follow through in ALL aspects of a process is a good lesson to have</p>