<p>Please indulge me while I vent! The other day I ran into a parent of one of my daughter's younger club teammates. She was talking about the seniors on the team and specifically the child of a mutual friend. She told me that the coach told a group of parents that he was being recruited by a laundry list of schools but was waiting until spring to make a decision. Well, I know the mother of this boy and she has talked to me extensively about their recruiting experience and this is absolutely untrue. Her son has been in contact with several coaches, but no coach initiated phone calls, official visits, etc. In my opinion, they reached too high, courting schools where the son's athletic ability was in the bottom of their range, expecting him to improve dramatically. More to the point, based on the following NCAA definition of a Recruited Athlete, I believe the coach is intentionally misleading parents regarding this particular athlete and most likely other athletes as well.</p>
<p>NCAA definition of a Recruited Prospective Student-Athlete</p>
<p>Actions by staff members or athletic representatives that cause a prospect to become a recruited prospect at that institution are:</p>
<p>A. Providing the prospect with an official visit.</p>
<p>B. Having an arranged, in-person, off-campus encounter with the prospect or the prospect's parents or legal guardians for the purpose of recruitment;and</p>
<p>C. Initiating or arranging a telephone contact with the prospect, the prospects relatives or legal guardians on more than one occassion for the purpose of recruitment and </p>
<p>D. Issuing a National Letter of Intent or the institution written offer of athletic related financial aid to the prospect (excluding summer term awards prior to inital full-time enrollment).</p>
<p>This coach has been disseminating false recruiting information for years, sucking in both parents and athletes with delusions of full scholarships for just slightly above average athletes, in an equity sport no less. He claims athletes have been recruited who are straight up walk-on and tells everyone an athlete at an Ivy is on a full athletic scholarship, which we all know is totally false, but his parents and athletes for the most part are clueless. But the biggest myth he perpetuates is that if an athlete makes States, they are all but guaranteed a full ride. Ughhhh!</p>
<p>I have counseled several parents on this team regarding recruiting and was asked by the parents organization to write a recruiting guide for them. There is no way that I can do this without stepping on this coach's toes, so I have made excuses for not doing this thus far. But it infuriates me when I hear about this coach's rhetoric!</p>