So, as the person who started this thread, I figured I would provide an update. About a month ago, my daughter and I flew to Chicago to visit Columbia College and DePaul. To be honest, by that point DePaul was out for her because her former best friend had committed to DePaul and she did not want to attend the same school, but I really wanted her to keep an open mind given the comedy arts program and the strong merit award that had been offered (unbelievable, we are from NY and this other kid manages to pick a school in Chicago that mine is considering). The Catholic thing was there in her mind, but it was primarily the former.
So, on Friday, after a flight cancellation the night before the moment we got to the airport (brutal), we flew in and because we missed our tour group, we were given a one-on-one tour at Columbia (so, as exhausted as we were, the missed flight turned out to be a benefit). Now, I am a Big Ten grad and I am big on college towns and being on a campus, so a city school encompassed by a few buildings in a small area is not for me. But, then, I am not the one picking a college and my daughter, who struggles with ADHD and is not an academic even though she is highly intelligent, loved Columbia. She is big into the music business, media and is a comic gift to the world. And she loved the vibe and the type of kid who goes there (she knows she’s a quirky weirdo). Also, the tour guide was wonderful. And the residence halls are nicer than my house.
We toured DePaul the next day. I love Lincoln Park because it is a lot like Brooklyn Heights, where I lived for many years, and my daughter liked the area too, but the tour did not move her (another in a long line of inconsequential tour guides). And, while I commented afterward how there are not all that many Catholic symbols, my daughter immediately said, “I counted 14.” So, for her, DePaul was just not the right place, but I know she was predisposed not to go where this former friend goes.
I was able to get more merit award money out of Columbia and that is where my daughter will attend college. It is actually the perfect school for her in so many ways, even though she and my wife and I would have preferred her to be closer to home. We did a final tour of a school in Boston, but it just does not offer what Columbia offers and did not give off the same vibe.
By the way, I am a college counselor and one thing I loathe is rankings and people’s obsession with US News. Well, as it turns out, my daughter will be attending the lowest ranked of the 15 or so schools she got into, including 4 US News Top 100 schools. She is an example why rankings really do not matter, especially where the fit is not there. She is also proof that even kids who struggle, do not have stellar grades and did not have honors and AP classes all over their resume can get into many good schools.
Good luck to all my lansmen and lanswomen who attend DePaul.