Did I make the wrong college choice?

I came here as an international student and started at Northwestern. After my freshman year I transferred to Widener University because they had a reputable engineering program and gave me a full ride as opposed to Northwestern where I would have graduated with a significant amount of debt. After school I got a job at Sprint telecom in Philly and I moved to NYC with my job two months ago. Now I need a company change and I am applying for other jobs in NYC but I have to compete with grads from Stanford, CMU, GTech etc. while my school is not as huge. I have a good GPA though and am in TBP.

Now I am starting to regret transferring and am feeling very depressed. Did I make the wrong choice? I think Widener education was amazing but I am just stuck on a school reputation and am unhappy with it. I also suffer from seasonal depression and this has made it worse right now:(

Well, you achieved the undergraduate cost avoidances you sought – graduating little or no debt, and that’s a strong positive – and there could hardly ever have been any question that Northwestern’s stature, networking, and so forth were far superior to Widener’s. Therefore, it really seems that your current situation should be neither a surprise nor a disappointment.

Water under the bridge, as for your title question. NU is just a more recognizable name and a top uni is assumed to attract top students. But your ABET degree with work experience should be fine and you know you got a good education. Keep looking, look on LINKEDIN for grads from your college in NYC.

And use the Careers forum, this is for searching for your undergrad college, and you are done with that.

any time you can go to college for free, you ought to consider it. But the mistake was probably in not doing your research about the limits of Widener’s reputation compared to your desire to continue working in one of the most competitive markets in the world. Widener just isn’t that well known or regarded as some of the schools you name. Having said that, your college’s reputation should have less to do with your success in life once you have a few years on the job. Is there any way you could stay at your current job for a couple more years? What is the outlook for returning to PA-NJ-Delaware, where Widener is better known?

As for feeling depressed about that decision, it’s way too late for regret. Your current situation is, for all you know, no worse than one you could be in had you graduated from Northwestern with tens of thousands of dollars of debt. We cannot know what might have been, so enough with the regrets. Get on with your life and career. No one is saying that you cannot go to graduate school at a school with Northwestern’s name recognition, and then no one will care that you went to Widener. The future is the answer.

No debt, ABET accredited, work experience and you’re female. I would not worry. If you had huge debt, you would be depressed about that.

Widener has an alumni group in NYC. Why don’t you try contacting alumni and see if they have any job leads for you? They certainly won’t look down on your degree! http://alumni.widener.edu/s/1507/landing.aspx?sid=1507&gid=1&pgid=609

You can always go to grad school. Your latest degree is the one that matters most.

Or should I list both schools on my resume with the year’s I attended? Right now i only have Widener because that’s where I completed the degree.

Strange advice. I see all over the place that in choosing a school for engineering, if it is ABET accredited, just go after the lowest COA. Now, with someone who followed that exact advice, I am seeing “you can always go to grad school at a brand-name,” “it’s water under the bridge now, you have made your decision,” “with such a competitive field, you should have considered the value of the school name/reputation.”

This seems a little hypocritical. Is it perhaps that I am reading posts from different CC members?

In my opinion, OP, every single job-seeker is focusing on that one weakness (wrong age, gender, school, pets, favorite movie, whatever). You will be fine. You are just going through a rough time.

@girlengineer‌: Do not, I repeat do not, list Northwestern on your resume.

@ItsJustSchool‌: Different CC members have different opinions. In particular, different posters to this very thread have different opinions—note the responses that basically say that if you can graduate with low to no debt and an accredited degree, you have an instant leg up on anyone who graduated with lots of debt no matter the name recognition of your school. (I fall into that camp, as well.)

@jkeil911 nailed it when they said that experience will soon begin to trump where you got your degree. At 2 years into a job you are probably already about there. There are thousands of companies right now that only care about your degree and your work experience and could not care less about where that degree was from.

You made the best choice. It might mean having to move or make some other adjustment, but there is no reason you can’t do extremely well with your background.

I agree, @ItsJustSchool. And then people wonder why kids who post are prestige hounds. It can be very confusing.

The point here is that OP is regretting her decision. If she regrets her value/prestige trade-off, that’s her value set right now and she’s entitled to make a different trade-off by going to grad school. It doesn’t mean that she made the wrong choice the first time around (no debt/no prestige): It just means there isn’t one right answer for everyone, and that people’s sense of the trade-offs can change over time. They don’t have to stick with the no debt/low prestige decision the made the first time just to be consistent.

I don’t get the sense that that is too confusing for most CC-ers to grasp. The community seems to have a pretty finely honed sense of nuance, for which I am giving them credit.

Our Ivy League grad neighbor was out of work for a year and a half. Sometimes, people are just out of work. But yes, no wonder there are so many prestige hounds.

@girlengineer Do you have to change companies now? Are you at your two year employment mark? It’s normal to be nervous.

Now that you are out of school and have worked a job, it’s your experience on the job that will matter most to new employers. What matters is the skills you bring to new job, not where you took classes a few years back.

True @gearmom, when I went to a Caltech info meeting, the two young grads they brought to talk to us were both out of work.

I wonder what OP’s visa status is.

@itsjustschool I just went back and read through the posters old posts. She had a strong GPA, but the posts present a young adult who has struggled with clear, compelling vision for herself .`She has made many very normal, but unfortunately real, inexperienced worker mistakes. She also has had financial stress which would have been greatly compounded if she hadn’t changed schools. Combine that with looking for a job in NYC, the situation is not applicable at large, but instead is a very difficult personal situation. I do not believe school choice is a factor in what is occurring.

OP, is there any particular reason you are seeking employment in NYC? Are you currently still employed with Sprint? Why after only a couple of months after your transfer are you searching for a new job? Are you still applying for entry level positions or are you competing for positions with far more experienced workers? (If I read correctly, you didn’t have your first job until after Oct 2013.) Are you restricted to that specific geography? If you opened up your application geographical area and included entry level positions, would you be able to find more opportunities?

I am so sorry you are so stressed and depressed. If you are still employed with Sprint, I would encourage you to stick it out a while longer. Employers are going to wonder why you are looking for another position only 2 months after a transfer. Transferring employees is expensive. (As a matter of fact, many companies expect you to pay back a percentage of your relocation costs is you quit under x# of months after the relocation.) Having 5 yrs of work experience bumps you into a different category of applicant than someone only a little over a yr of work experience.

If you absolutely need to find a job, restricting your geographical region to NYC is not to your benefit.

I wish you the best in finding your feet. Do not regret changing schools. You do not know that the scenario would be any different and you would have even more stress from debt. Look forward, not back.

Post # 11: “And then people wonder why kids who post are prestige hounds. It can be very confusing.”

I’m not trying to hijack this thread from it’s fine purpose, to assist @girlengineer‌. However, @austinmshauri‌ foregoing quotation (again) focuses on an important issue, one I believe is highly instructional especially for those in the fifteen to thirty-five age groups.

I don’t believe girlengineer’s experience is either unusual or unexpected. Individuals can debate endlessly – and futilely, there is NO resolution possible – regarding whether it is also fair or unfair. However, we all reside in the “real world,” not on some parallel, flawless planet. Some will suggest that the OP has EARNED – and apparently with fine grades – a fully credible ABET Bachelor’s degree, and that is all that’s relevant. Pragmatically, I am compelled to disagree, based on my own experiences during 40+ years in the workplace (as a naval officer/Lockheed Martin engineer/leader/program manager/executive). The following describes why I feel as I do.

To begin, my thesis is far more applicable to those just receiving Bachelor’s degrees and in their first, perhaps, 10 or 15 years of experience than it is to seasoned professionals – that is significant. Please consider the hiring decision from the relevant manager’s and his (or hers) supervisor’s/director’s viewpoint, because they – not the functionaries in HR – are the individuals who ultimately determine who will be offered this position. These folks are busy, they have many responsibilities, generally they are under considerable pressure to “produce,” and respectively they may oversee probably 1 to 25 and 75 to 200 degreed professionals. Furthermore, personnel issues are frequently a “necessary inconvenience” that impedes their – and their teams – immediate task achievement(s) . . . frankly, they are widely perceived as a “pain.”

Understanding this environment, let’s now consider how job X is actually filled. To begin, X generally has a Position Description, it’s frequently pro-forma in nature, but the manager and the director will BRIEFLY (<5 minutes) review it and possibly make a few modifications. Those enhancements could (although this is not too typical) including wording such as: “with an ABET accredited Bachelor’s degree in Z from a highly reputable university.” They might do so because, candidly, it makes their hiring task easier and less-perilous to rely on the highly-competitive screening already applied by a most-selective university. Next, HR will solicit and receive probably 100+ internal- and external-resumes from aspirants who want job X. HR will initially screen this “pile,” but basically only to eliminate those who clearly do not meet the documented position requirements. Next – and this is where I offer my key point – the manager/director will receive probably 75 to 125 “employable” resumes from HR and they will decide how many individuals will be interviewed. This is the most-critical hurdle in the process, and crucially the manager/director can only afford to spend a minute (possibly two) on each resume. They “weed” this resume stack from possibly one hundred (or more) to about a dozen VERY quickly, and then they consider that group in appreciably greater depth to obtain a list of approximately five or six “interviewees.”

The cut from about 100 to about 10 or 12 resumes is the ESSENTIAL EVALUATION and – vitally – less time was invested in assessing each resume than it takes to walk across the office to refill one’s coffee cup with a few moments of idle chatter included. To do this expeditiously, each resume is “scanned” any any unusual “high or low points” are noted. Any highlight deficiency and the resume is discarded, any clear positive and it enters the “possible interview pile.” Obviously, a BSE from MIT, Cornell, UVa, Berkeley, and so forth “jumps out” in this fast evaluation (as do degrees with excellent grades from “home team” universities: Georgia Tech for Marietta, UCLA/USC for Palmdale, UT, A&M and Texas Tech for Fort Worth, and so forth) , but a BSE from WVU (for example) probably does not. Suggesting that no insightful effort was invested to reduce these resumes from the 100+ pile, to the dozen, and then to the five or six who will be interviewed is self-evident.

The goal here is very important understand: it’s not to spend countless hours investigating and analyzing 100+ resumes, rather it is to find a group of “final candidates,” all of whom are low-risk and have a high probability of success in position X. It truly is irrelevant if five or ten other individuals are fundamentally equal to those who will be interviewed . . . we are not in the HR business and we want – and need – to get back to our “real” jobs, the ones we are where high-level performance is important to overall programmatic success. Our only objective is QUICKLY to cull the resumes and arrive at reasonably-sized, no-risk, almost definitely high-success interview-pool. Those <10 - 12 selected will, finally, be interviewed – and with considerable care and effort, often at least twice – before a final selectee is offered job X.

This is solely one individual’s experiences, but I rather doubt if they differs greatly from the norm in large, engineering/program management-focused, and highly competitive organizations. I provide these details so the OP – and others – can understand why Northwestern is a major interview-catalyst, while Widener is not (and, decisively, you can’t be hired if you are not interviewed). That appears to be the crux of the OP’s inquiry.

TopTier, did you read any of her other posts? She asked if she would be competitive for Stanford, MIT CS and was boosting her application by self-studying from a C++ programming book for beginners. She had no CS background. She described her undergrad research as secretarial and that when she presented it, she didn’t understand any of it. She turned down one job offer bc she was hoping to get a different job she interviewed for but didn’t have an offer from the second company.

There are a lot of red flags about realistic expectations. This situation does not translate across a large body of students. It is representative of the OP’s situation.