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<p>Not always. Depending on campus culture and era, it can vary from don’t really care to caring very much. </p>
<p>Some older HS classmates from the lower SES/URMs found the latter to be the case when they attended Princeton where being lower SES, URM, and/or from a “urban public school” was held against them by the mostly higher SES classmates of that era (late '80s/early '90s). </p>
<p>In contrast, a Chinese in-law who was from an upper-middle class Mainland Chinese/Hong Kong family who attended a “British Public school” felt very well accepted around the latter part of that period. </p>
<p>It was also heavily cared about at my LAC for a different reason…heavy deconstruction of students who came from perceived “privilege” whether it’s race, SES, gender, sexual orientation, etc. </p>
<p>While at many NE counterparts it was ok or even encouraged to dress preppy, wear glamorous brand name clothes/jewelry, show off wealth in various ways, etc…it was considered extremely gauche to do so at my LAC as it marked one as a “highly privileged bourgeois tool” and thus…a convenient poster student of how not to dress/act/behave and as a part of the “leftier than thou” one-upsmanship practiced by most of the students at the time I was there. </p>
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<p>Sometimes, it may just happen that your D1 happened upon some rude Asian students on her floor. Hey…there are jerks in every racial/ethnic group. </p>
<p>It may also be possible she didn’t fit in culturally for one reason or another. </p>
<p>Similar things have happened between me and various subsets of Asian-Americans simply because they grew up in an “Asiatown” or those who grew up in upper/upper-middle class all/near-all White suburbs and I grew up in what was a mostly White/Latino working-class neighborhood in NYC. </p>
<p>Some from the latter group(Asian-American suburbanites) shows up quite often in culture clashes between me and most members of my extended family. </p>
<p>Ironically, it was the Asian international students and working class/lower-middle class FA/scholarship students with whom I felt closest to and made easy friends. While I also made many friends outside the group…including a few with whom I was in fierce conflict in certain points of my undergrad career, it sometimes took much more effort that most IME wouldn’t be willing to expend.</p>