<p>HELLO!!! what shud i do???</p>
<p>is there a way to let someone know you like him without saying the direct words?</p>
<p>arghh is it that hard? no one knows?</p>
<p>find a way.</p>
<p>Hey, I had bad social skills until eighth grade when a 22 yo teacher came to teach. Since freshman year till now (graduated), he and I are friends and I am much more outgoing thanks to meeting him and pushing myself to come out of my shell and grow up. Flirting, yes that happened. Friendship, yes that happened. Goofiness, that happened too. Conversation with someone not still in high school, thank goodness for that. A kind of love developed, I believe that happened too. Who knows who this guy could turn out to be in your life, even if it's just good friends. Just don't get flippant over him because you don't want to lose focus and take your eyes off the prize -- going to school to become more powerful than men and not needing to be dependent on them. Muahaha.</p>
<p>I have horrible social skills, and the fact that although I go to a public school, I rarely fall for anyone.</p>
<p>When I do, I'm obsessed. But I never let anyone know. It's a secrrreeeetttt! And they never find out. Gosh, the object of my affection actually asked me to a dance once, and I kind of just let it purposely fall out of the agenda out of fear that they were mocking me. See, I was never that popular and my crush was friends with everyone, including some of the best-looking girls in school that had modeling contracts and were obviously interested in him. Too bad.</p>
<p>Okay...back to me!!! :)</p>
<p>he almost saw this thread =o</p>
<p>You have to at least take a chance to have a chance.</p>
<p>The way I would look at it is if you ask him and he doesn't like you or something, then poo. </p>
<p>But if you spend your entire summer gawking at him and then he leaves, you're going to spend your life regretting never having the courage to ask him. And that is a much more dreary fate than poo.</p>
<p>that's true.</p>
<p>maybe i should befriend him more.</p>
<p>is there a way to let him know you like him without telling him? its called flirting.</p>
<p>maybe you should let him see this thread. actually you should just flirt with him. that means waiting till he says something remotely funny and then act like its HILARIOUS. when you talk to him, play with your hair, giggle, and playfully touch his arm if he says one of those remotely funny things.</p>
<p>Flirt with him and if you're afraid to ask him have one of your friends tell him. It's not lame for a girl to do that. Don't try that if you're a guy though, lol. Guys got to buck up and tell the girl how they feel. Girls have it SOOO much easier.</p>
<p>I was homeschooled through 9th grade; then I spent most of 10th grade obsessed with this one guy who never liked me. Be cautious, because your big crush COULD just be desperation.</p>
<p>And do you really not see guys that much? Do you have church stuff (like youth group) during the year? Are you in any clubs, plays, music groups, anything?</p>
<p>I'm sorry that I ever had one of my friends ask that one guy if he liked me; it just made things awkward for the rest of the year. (Weird...he was also 2 years older than me...)</p>
<p>If I were you I'd just use my powers of self-persuasion to knock myself OUT of it. I'd convince myself that guys aren't worth my time right now and "love" is but a fickle chemical reaction that occurs in the brain and fades after a short period of time. Oh, and teenage horomones make you impulsive. ;) But hey, I'm a pessimist, so what do I know? Lol.</p>
<p>Maybe you could become really good friends with him first--get to know him well and everything, spend some time together--and then confess it? Or you could try to make him like you back through this entire getting-to-know-you process.</p>
<p>we dont get much time 2gether n if we r its usually in a pc room where he spends his time flirting w/ girls online -_-jj</p>