<p>Moni you say that now but if you get involved with a guy that you like there is a good possibility that you will develop a lot of feelings for him.</p>
<p>Im sure I would get emotionally involved in my own mind.. but as long as the title isnt there I will feel like I have no logical reason to be upset when we stop being "together" and therefore, I won't be upset. No title, no tears..thats how it works for me. If I don't let myself believe that theres an official relationship, I won't let my feelings run wild as I have done in the past. I'm all about logic... and dont give me some crap about love not being logical.</p>
<p>Moni then why would you ever even have a title? I think I have similar problems. Everytime there is a title on one of my relationships I feel pressured to do so much more. Usually that just makes things a lot worse.</p>
<p>Guys, leave Moni alone, she basically just wants to make out with any good-looking guys(subjective) that she sees, so she's satisfied and maintains her nerves without having to endure an emotional relationship.</p>
<p>There's nothing wrong with that. Why aren't more girls like this?????....;)</p>
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<p>Moni: this is called "doubles". ;)</p>
<p>the sloc: is that like, a normal thing for ya'll? doubles? crazy kids these days..</p>
<p>man<em>on</em>fire and ryan2288 : I just don't want to be lonely and I realize that boys will just muck things up until we all get a lot older and then things have a chance of lasting. I'd like to preserve my feelings but not be completely excluded from the debatable fun that is teenage "dating".</p>
<p>And boys love me...well, smart ones do.</p>
<p>Do me a favor. If you ever come up to New York, give me a call.</p>
<p>moni I live in Atlanta, even closer!</p>
<p>hahaaa... you boys are silly.
I could be ugly for all you know.. ;)</p>
<p>Not right now. My high school doesn't offer many girls that are not fake and conceited beyond belief...</p>
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<p>Are you desperate for a girlfriend or just for some action?</p>
<p>I want some hardcore action :)</p>
<p>No, and why should I? High school doesn't feature anyone that one can really bond with.</p>
<p>Do you think the people on cc date less than the general population, or are only non-daters posting here?</p>
<p>Probably less than the general population.</p>
<p>I would think CC kids date less than the general population...</p>
<p>Lets see... CC'ers are usually wicked smart..and wicked smart ppl are usually busy doing quantum physics or something ridicuous. and since they have no time, they have no lovers. Or theyre wicked smart and they realize that the odds of a high school relationship working out are slim..so they dont get in em.</p>
<p>I don't even know what quantum physics is...and thats why I COULD have a fruitful love life, but choose not to. And I don't think Im smart enough not to get hurt either. Basically, what am I doing on CC?!</p>
<p>I don't believe in high school romance. Attractions between youths are too misleading. At a time in our lives when we are experiencing new changes, we may be too quick to jump into this kind of relationship. Our reason: because we think "we're in love." Teens, certainly not all of us, tend to consider themselves mature enough to make thoughtful decisions about matters, such as relationships. Sometimes, this is true. Some of us are mature enough. However, most of us are not. Sometimes, the decisions we make because of our limited perspective don't take into account the entire picture. "Are we really IN love?" "Are these feelings mutual?" "Do I know what I'm getting myself into?" "Where will this relationship lead?" If two people have never experienced love, how can they determine that their relationship consists of it or infatuation? Honestly, I think that we can't determine. </p>
<pre><code> As I mentioned before, teens, in general, have too limited of a perspective to make good decisions about ALL matters of life. Sure, people may know what we want to be and how to get there, but how many will actually take that vocation and follow that exact road they had planned. This is how I think high school relationships are. Sure, we may know that this is what we want for a relationship and how we want it to be, but later on things will happen that will change all that. Many may argue that that doesn't validate that teen relationships are not serious. But, consider this:
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<p>50% of marriages today end in divorce. I'm sure these grown-a$$ adults thought they were in meaniful, love-ful relationships, too. Rarely, do people fall in love at first site. Love requires more than physical attraction and chemistry. After being with someone long enough, you don't see them as cute anymore and that quirk, lovable personality becomes annoying FAST. Love requires loyalty, friendship, respect, etc. High School relationships rarely include these characeristics which without the relationships are meaningless, waste of time. I will rather wait than involve myself in these meaningless infatuations.</p>
<p>i probably won't date seriously until I go to college in another year.</p>
<p>of course, a little action here and then is good.</p>