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Sakky, Most every "American Success Story" is a story of immigrant ancestors who came to this country and worked and sacrificed and struggled to give the next generation a better life. They did not come over expecting the best education America could give them right off the bat... it was a process of working and achieving and hopefully reaching their American dream. We owe nothing to students of other countries who are not willing to go through the same process simply because they are gifted intellectually in some way.
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<p>Really? Is that right? Have you been to an American high school lately? Let's be perfectly honest. Many (probably most) American kids are pretty darn lazy. Many of the girls are far more concerned about the latest rumors of Miley Cyrus or Britney Spears than about their schoolwork. Many of the boys are far more interested in the statistics and trivia of their favorite sports heroes, than they are in actually studying hard. And, at least in my old high school, the kids spent far more time on their popularity, who was dating who, where and when was the next cool party, (for the girls) who was wearing the new cool fashion, who was taking whom to the prom, than they actually spent studying. </p>
<p>Look, maybe I can agree with you that their ancestors may have worked very hard to build a good life. But the kids? Not so much. They basically just won the genetic lottery. They were simply lucky to be born to a hard-working and successful family in the US, even though they aren't hard-working themselves. President George Bush is living proof of this. He got into Yale and then Harvard Business School not because he actually worked hard, but because of his father. {To be fair, Al Gore was the same, graduating only 25th out of a class of 51 in high school, yet still getting into Harvard because his dad was Senator Al Gore Sr.} </p>
<p>And besides, I think you heavily discount just how stacked the deck really is against international students to be getting into top US colleges. If nothing else, the very fact that you have to speak at least passable English bars most of them. The fact is, the vast majority of the world does not speak any English at all, much less passably. For example, if you're just an average person in China (hence, you're not one of the small percentage of the privileged), you're not even going to get the chance to learn English beyond the most basic level. And if you just don't know English, you can't even compete for a spot at a top US college. Americans hold the major advantage that they are born and immersed in an English speaking environment from day one and so they will never be barred from competing for a US college simply because they can't even speak the language. But hey, it's not the fault of the regular Chinese guy that he happens to be born in China. He just had the bad luck of losing the genetic lottery. </p>
<p>Just imagine the reverse scenario: a regular, unprivileged American trying to develop the language fluency necessary to get into a foreign university. Most regular Americans never have the opportunity to develop strong foreign language skills like that. To learn another language requires a tremendous amount of hard work. </p>
<p>So it's not as if these foreigners are simply 'intellectually gifted' and nothing more. They also have to work very hard. If nothing else, they have the extra burden of learning multiple languages that Americans don't have. </p>
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And by the way, US college tuition is an unfathomable amount of money for us to pay but we have worked hard since the day my children were born to save for this and we will be skimping and sacrificing our way through the next 6+ years to pay with no financial assistance whatsoever.
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<p>Well, let me put it to you this way. Whatever scrimping and sacrificing you may have to do, you are almost certainly still going to be living far better than the average person around the world, especially an average person in a poor country. Would you rather trade places with them? Really? The US is one of the few countries where a "poor" person can still have his own car. The majority of people in the world can't even dream of owning their own car. Heck, plenty of people in the world aren't even sure if they are even going to eat today. Think about that, and ask yourself whether you think they really have it so good.</p>