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<p>I totally get what you have to say about wondering if the effort of teaching your child your first language is worth it if it is a minority language. Especially when reading Japanese is as tricky as it is! In my area the Japanese kids who are here temporarily spend their weekends at Japanese school so they are on track in all subjects when they return home. Some Japanese-American couples send their kids as well so they learn to read Japanese. Every Japanese mom I’ve talked with just hates it because they have twice as much homework to supervise each week, but there is no other good option for their kids.</p>
<p>There was no question for me in using English with Happykid while living in Spanish because I had always spoken English with her dad, my Spanish is decent but not as fluent as my Spanish, and I knew that perfect English would give her a competitive advantage living there. When we moved back here, I was able to find a Saturday morning Spanish school for her. Just language arts and social studies that followed the local school district curriculum. Nowhere near as demanding as the Japanese school would have been!</p>
<p>Kids who grow up in multi-lingual environments don’t confuse the languages for long. They will respond appropriately to each language well before they produce language. Often there is a speech delay because they are busy figuring out which language to use with which person. Sort of the way monolingual kids have to figure out what kind of language to use with different people. Happykid had no speech delay, but a playmate who lived in a three language household (English, French, Spanish) didn’t speak until she was three years old. It took a visit from the French-speaking grandma and aunt before the child sorted out that it was a real language used by more than just her mom.</p>
<p>I learned a lot of Spanish reading books to Happykid, and when the Harry Potter books came out, I read them to her in both languages. Lots of great vocabulary there in any language! I encourage all of my ESL students who don’t have library cards to get them and to read books from the children’s section on topics that they are interested in before tackling something in the adult’s section.</p>