<p>Quote: "I went to school a while back but I got really good financial aid - and my family is probably middle to upper middle class. "</p>
<p>You have to realize that today there are many "middle to upper middle class" (out of state) students that get no financial aid at either school. My son was one of those kids. To him, it was worth paying the extra $$ (about $9,000/year) to go to Duke over UVA (or UNC, as the original poster asked). He was even willing to take out a loan in his name for the extra if necessary. </p>
<p>Many newer aid programs are not really available for the middle class (OOS)
kids. I don't know anything about AccessUVA, but I would guess it is for the lower income families that qualify for need based aid.</p>
<p>I think it is very admirable that you are such a loyal advocate of UVA. I don't think you have to dis other schools such as Duke or UNC to make your points about UVA however. The original poster asked about Duke and UNC. :)</p>