<p>I have had a lot of social experience at Duke for the past three years because my boyfriend goes there. I have found some of the students to be very conceited, unfriendly and disparaging toward me when they find out that I am a Tar Heel. They truly do think themselves to be in some sort of academic stratosphere merely because they attend Duke, and yes, I absolutely agree with the early poster's comment that they are very caught up in the fact that they are Duke students. When my boyfriend visits with me and my friends at UNC, the worst he's gotten is "So, your basketball team really sucked last night!" When I am at Duke, along with the requisite basketball commentary, I am routinely told that I am stupid, my classes are too easy, I go to a safety school, etc. </p>
<p>I readily admit that I am a lifelong Carolina fan and harbor a strong distaste for Duke's athletics; however, when my boyfriend first started there, I was very open minded to the academics of the school and tried very hard to build friendships with the people I met through him. I have met several people there who I genuinely like and enjoy being around, but unfortunately, the majority of the people I have met there have rubbed me the wrong way (particularly the freshman who exclaimed "EUUUUUUUUGHHHHH!!!!!!" in my face when he found out I went to Carolina...sadly, it was painfully apparent that he was not joking).</p>
<p>Academically, I really, honestly do not think there is a noticeable difference. When you pay for a Duke degree, you are really only paying for the name on the degree and the prestige that it brings, which admittedly is a tangible quality and in some postgraduate pursuits I assume is well worth the higher price tag. As far as the actual academic climate, my boyfriend constantly complains about inattentive and ineffective professors who speak nearly unintelligible English, while in my four semesters at Carolina I can honestly say that I have only had two professors that I would describe as generally incompetent. I have taken many interesting courses, and most of my instructors have learned my name and have no trouble finding time for me outside of class should I request it. My boyfriend also seems to have taken just as many intro-level large lecture courses as I have. As far as course selection, I believe there are almost 100 more departments available at Carolina (which makes sense given the relative sizes of the universities). As far as the caliber of the students, I agree with the earlier comment about the focus and competitive natures of the Duke students. There is a large contingent of international students who are extremely academically driven. However, the students at Carolina are generally smart and motivated - in college, the students who genuinely want to be there go to class, and the ones that don't stay in bed till 3 and flunk out. I have never been in a situation in any of my classes, large or small, where I felt that my peers were hindering me academically in any way. Most of the students here are also very friendly and socially aware (the political scene at Carolina is HUGE - my boyfriend is routinely baffled by the emphasis placed on such relatively minor political events as student body president elections!).</p>
<p>The major difference I see between Duke and Carolina is that at Carolina, you really get a "real world education." From what I've seen through my boyfriend's experience at Duke, they really hold your hands all four years, forcing you to live on campus and buy their meal plans for three years, making the freshman year very structured, etc. I really get a "boarding school" vibe when I am there, if that makes sense, and if you feel like you'd benefit from a very structured education from all sides, Duke is a good place for that. Though most choose to spend at least one year on campus at Carolina, it is not required, and there is a huge assortment of housing options, from university dorms to private dorms (Granville Towers) to apartments to the quaint little houses that surround campus and are rented out to students. There is orientation and optional programs for freshmen, but the only thing you are absolutely forced to adhere to is the General College program for your course selections, and even within that there is great flexibility. As far as social options, the Duke social scene is very limited to fraternities and a couple of mediocre clubs and bars around campus. Sometimes there are plays and cultural performances, but after 10, your entertainment options are rather limited. Franklin St., adjacent to UNC's campus, is much more vibrant, and there seem to be a lot more cultural and "special interest" activities on the weekends to occupy those that shun the party scene.</p>
<p>I really think Duke is a great school academically, but I cannot see a reason to justify spending as much as four times the money to go there. No one who knows anything about American colleges and universities thinks UNC is a slouch. So really, if you are accepted to both schools, I'd strongly recommend visiting and choosing the campus that makes you feel the most comfortable. </p>
<p>Whew, that was long winded - hope it was somewhat helpful!</p>
<p>PS: If any Duke students read this and are offended, I do apologize, but I am speaking from personal experience. I have a great respect for your school in spite of the athletic rivalry, but I have not met terribly many students who treat me as if they deserve to have that respect extended to them.</p>